Blind dates are usually introduced through relatives and friends, which can be regarded as guaranteed by the matchmaker's words. Under normal circumstances, even if the two parties don't like each other, they will leave WeChat messages to each other. But after the blind date is over, it is very likely that the other party will delete their WeChat messages. So what is the reason for this? Let’s learn about the psychology of blind date girls deleting their WeChat messages with Xiaoyu Love Editor.
1. There will be no intersection in the future
Two people who are not destined are not as good as each other. Forget about the world. If you want to take a big step forward, be a ruthless person, forget about the meaningless people in the past, have a breeze on your sleeves, and have some leisurely pleasure.
Although some blind date partners are introduced by relatives and friends, the two people have no relationship foundation before. If they feel that the other person is not suitable, they will not have any intersection again, so there is no need to keep WeChat. .
What girls do will be a little willful, but it is not necessarily unreasonable. The purpose of their blind date is very clear. They will tell you that the two of them are not suitable by deleting WeChat. In the future, There is no need to contact her again. This is a very real girl and will not waste your time. She is much better than those who clearly don’t like her but can’t explain why.
2. Don’t want to keep it for future trouble
Out of sight, out of mind. Free love fails, and when the marriageable age is reached, they are forced to embark on the path of blind date under the urging of family and society. This is a very embarrassing thing for some girls. They even find it absurd and ridiculous. They met a blind date but were not matched successfully. There will be some resentment.
Every girl is proud. In order to avoid being upset in the future, she chooses to completely forget about the other person, as if they have never been together. She does not want to keep WeChat as a memory after getting married. I have been kissed many times, and there is a fiery heart hidden under the seemingly cold surface. This kind of girls are sensitive and fragile. They cannot tolerate any worldly vision in their world and want to live their lives as others expect.
3. It is difficult to be friends if people do not agree with each other
. Two people can live happily together only if they understand each other, but people with different views cannot understand your emotions at all. You like to have your own interests and hobbies, but he thinks it is a waste of time; you pay attention to appearance, but he doesn't. The world is sloppy; you like a life with a sense of ritual, but he doesn't understand romance. The other party will never understand your thoughts. It is difficult for two people to reach a tacit understanding no matter what they do.
Because the three views are inconsistent, there will be countless quarrels and conflicts. It is understandable that some people cannot bear such mental torment and choose to cut off the contact with each other. This kind of girl just wants to follow her heartSound, don't want to be tied down by anything, enjoy your life according to your own ideas.
