When meeting a new girl, asking her name is an essential step. But how to ask a girl’s name tactfully? Here are a few routines for you.
1. Ask directly
This is the simplest and most direct method. Ask the girl directly: "You What's your name?" Although a bit mundane, it is also one of the most effective methods.
2. Indirect questioning
You can find out the girl’s name in other ways, such as: “I see the necklace you are wearing is very beautiful. What’s the name written on it?” or “ The name on your watch seems to be in English, can you tell me what it means?" This way you can not only learn the girl's name, but also let the other person feel your attention and interest in her.
3. Create topics
You can elicit girls’ names by creating topics. For example: "What type of music do you like to listen to? Is there a singer you particularly like?" If the other person answers the name of a certain singer, then you can ask: "His/her name seems to be very special, you know?" Does it mean anything? ”
4. Pretend to forget
When you have met a girl many times but don’t know her name, you can try to pretend to forget and then ask her: "Your name seems to be...? Why can't I remember it?" This will not only allow the other person to tell you their name, but also avoid embarrassment.
When meeting a new girl, asking her name is an essential step. Asking directly, asking indirectly, creating topics and pretending to forget are all more tactful methods. Which method you choose will depend on the situation, but no matter what, be careful to show your concern and interest.
