When you meet the person you like during a blind date, you must learn to strike while the iron is hot after the blind date is over to further bring the relationship between the two people closer. So what should you talk about after the blind date to bring the relationship closer?
1. What to talk about when you go back to chat after a blind date
1. Simple greetings
After a blind date, you can directly Ask the girl, "Are you home?" "I feel relieved when you are home."
Such a simple greeting is enough at this time. Never continue to have an in-depth conversation with a girl. You can find a reason to retreat first.
She chats. If a girl has time to post in her Moments, it means she is still free and can chat with girls based on the content in her Moments. If there is no news from girls, you can chat with girls after dinner (7-8 o'clock).
2. Interesting things in life
Even if you have a general understanding of the other party during the blind date, in fact, We still know relatively little about girls. So we might start the chat with what are you doing because we can’t find the right topic, and then go into awkward question-and-answer chat mode.
Therefore, when we chat with girls, we try not to start with words. We can try to shoot a short video to share interesting things around us to open the topic. This is a more interesting topic to start, and it looks more up-to-date. Ying, you are more attractive to a girl than asking her what she is doing, making her more willing to reply.
3. Interrupt the chat in time
The purpose of our chat is to build attraction. When she's in a good mood during the chat, it means attraction has been established. When you are having fun chatting, ending the topic in a timely manner will make girls want to continue chatting with you. This will pave the way for your next chat or invitation. Play hard to get! Let her fall in love with you inadvertently during the small fluctuations in her heart.
2. How to ask her out again after a blind date
1. Judge whether she is interested in you or not.
After the blind date, if we want to invite her again, we should not only be interested in her, but also judge whether she is interested in us and whether she is satisfied with this blind date. At this time, we can use ridicule and pets to judge, such as:
I feel like you are quite shy today
I didn’t expect you also like puppies
You are different from what I imagined
Starting from the things mentioned or encountered during the blind date, if the girl is satisfied with the blind date,You can judge by the word count and speed of her reply.
2. Create a relaxed chat atmosphere and invite girls.
After confirming that she is interested in us and is somewhat familiar with us, we can promptly invite her to meet next time when the chat atmosphere is good.
However, a girl’s favor will not always exist and will gradually fade over time. Therefore, you must seize every opportunity to meet, capture the girl's favor during the chat, and determine the place for the second date.
Choose a Western restaurant as a place for the second date. Choosing some highly interactive places is more likely to promote the progress of the relationship between the two. For example, playgrounds, catching dolls, short trips, outdoor barbecues, etc.
