Many boys will encounter this problem. Every time they chat with girls, they will chat to death. So why does this happen? Let us discuss it together.
1. Lack of topics
Many boys always don’t know what to say when chatting with girls What, lack of topic. This may be due to not paying enough attention to news, culture, entertainment and other information, resulting in the inability to have meaningful communication with girls.
2. Too nervous
Some boys are too nervous when chatting with girls, resulting in rigid thinking and difficulty in expressing their thoughts naturally. At this time, you can try to relax, don't care too much about the other person's reaction, and try to stay natural.
3. Don’t know how to guide the topic
Although some boys have topics, they don’t know how to guide them, resulting in monotonous chat content. At this time, you can guide the topic by asking questions, sharing personal experiences, etc. to increase the interactivity of the chat.
4. Ignore the other person’s feelings
Some boys only focus on themselves when chatting with girls and ignore the other person’s feelings. Doing so can easily make girls feel boring and uncomfortable, making it difficult to continue chatting. Therefore, pay attention to the other person's reaction when chatting and try to make the other person feel happy.
5. Lack of common topics
Some boys and girls lack common topics, resulting in monotonous chat content. At this time, you can find common topics by understanding each other's interests, hobbies, work and study, etc., and increase the depth and breadth of communication.
Every time I chat with a girl, I end up chatting to death. It may be due to lack of topics, being too nervous, not knowing how to guide the topic, ignoring the other person's feelings, or lack of common topics. Only by paying attention to communication skills, paying attention to information dynamics, and respecting each other's feelings can we have meaningful communication with girls.
