Those of you who have surfed the Internet for many years must be familiar with the word "personality design". Words like "personality collapse" and "personality collapse" appear in various hot spots from time to time. What is the so-called personality? What does it mean?
1. What does character design mean?
Character design The meaning is actually very simple and can be understood very clearly from the literal meaning. In short, it is an image setting of a person, including appearance characteristics, personality characteristics, etc.
The meaning of character design can be roughly described as making the characters more vivid and three-dimensional to appear in front of the public and gain their love.
For example, we see public celebrities who, in order to gain the love of a certain group of fans, deliberately create a personality that is loved by fans. Affectionate, funny, aloof, etc.
For example, most scumbag men tend to create an image of themselves as affectionate, dedicated, rich, and interesting to gain the favor of the opposite sex.
Therefore, in person-to-person contact, personality is very important. It is directly related to the other person's attitude towards you and the degree of liking for you.
This is why we always emphasize the importance of first impression and image maintenance in the circle of friends when chasing girls.
Although personality is important, it does not mean that everyone should create a false image to face others.
Sociologist Goffman’s theory of dramatization explains this problem very well. If our daily life and communication activities are regarded as dramatic performances, and society is compared to the stage, then everyone is a performer. Everyone should think about what impression they should leave on others.
Therefore, it is human nature to establish a character, and it is the only way to gain love.
So, how can we give ourselves a solid personality to help us pursue girls?
Next, let’s find out what the most popular boys’ personalities among girls are like. Bar.
2. The most popular boys’ personality among girls
Personality = personality tone + details + Opportunities to create blockages
1. Personality tone
The so-called personality tone is to determine what kind of person you are.
For example, the character is optimistic or sad; the speech is passionate or gentle; the writing style is sharp or literary.
In short, you must first understand what kind of person you are and what kind of person you want everyone to think you are.
Once determined, your normal behavior must be based on this tone to restrain yourself.
This is also the difference between real characters and fake characters.
A true personality is to strive to make yourself what you want, and to constrain yourself with the tone of your personality that you have set in advance.A false persona is just an illusion.
It’s like you are trying to portray yourself to the other person as a knowledgeable, thoughtful, and meaningful person. Then you should read more and think more, and not just stop at the level of false creation.
Otherwise, when you actually appear in front of the other person, violating the persona you originally showed to the other person will cause a disaster with a huge gap between ideal and reality.
Don’t talk about whether you have a good impression or not. I’m afraid the other person will only be angry at being deceived.
Therefore, the personality tone must be true.
Or, at least the false gender is too big when you show yourself in front of the other person. (The scumbag is using this false mask)
2. Supplementary details
This includes you Food, clothing, housing, transportation, life hobbies, daily interesting things, etc.
This is also the top priority of character design.
If the personality tone is a framework, then the details are the flesh and blood that makes this person vivid and three-dimensional.
For example, you need to show the other party that he is a knowledgeable and thoughtful person. What usually appears in your circle of friends must be the occasional check-in of high-quality books and movies, the occasional deep insights, and the occasional trip to the holy land of literati...
These details record your life and are in line with the tone of your personality. , is a complete you.
3. Opportunities to create buzz
If the above two steps determine whether you can attract the other person, This step determines whether you can be remembered by her.
The opportunity to create a meme is to create a symbol of your own, so that by repeatedly using this meme, the other person will definitely think of you when they think of this symbol.
For example, I have a short neck. In fact, I think it's normal and not short. This is just an exclusive joke between me and you, right, friends.
For example, you always prostitute me for free. In fact, I am also happy to let you go whoring for free. Isn’t being whored a kind of happiness?
Therefore, in your daily life, if you have the opportunity, don’t let go of any opportunity to create trouble.
In this way, your symbol can be deeply imprinted in her heart.
Finally, I know that you understand the importance of character, and I also know that you will build a real and good character.
But I still want to remind everyone that character design is actually trying to be a human being. Since you are a human being, success may not happen overnight.
It may be a month, it may be a quarter, it may be a whole year, but we still have to work hardTry to do it actively. Good things and good girlfriends always come last, right?
