When you first get to know a girl, because you don’t know the girl well, it’s easy to violate the girl’s taboos by chatting, and then she won’t be willing to talk to you. You must know that when you first meet a girl, how you feel when chatting with her lays the foundation for your subsequent chats and interactions. So how should you chat with a girl you just met? Let me share with you tips on chatting with girls you just met.
How to chat with a girl you just met
1. Make the girl interested in your chat opening remarks
When you start chatting with a girl, don’t always ask Girl, have you eaten and what are you doing? Because the girl must be tired of hearing it, and she hopes that someone with fresh ideas will appear, so that she will be interested in it and have the desire to continue chatting.
Therefore, at this time, you need to take the initiative to observe what the girl’s circle of friends is doing recently, and then start chatting with her from these aspects. For example, the girls recently went on a trip and took a lot of photos. If you happen to have been to this place, you can talk to her about this topic and activate your atmosphere. If you haven't been there then you can search the internet for the general situation and talk about it. At this time, you can also intersperse your embarrassing things to make girls smile. In this way, she will think that you are a very humorous and optimistic person, because most girls don't like stiff and boring men.
If the girl has small animals at home, you can talk about some interesting things about cute pets at this time. While chatting, the girl will be very relaxed and share stories with her pet.
2. Chat to take care of girls’ emotions
In addition, girls are emotional creatures, so when When boys face the girl they like, they should pay more attention to the girl's emotions. When you feel that a girl is happy, say more happy things to make her laugh; when you feel that a girl is depressed, say more words to comfort her.
3. Learn how to invite
No matter how many chatting skills you have mastered or how well you chat with girls, don’t forget that your ultimate goal is to “invite”, otherwise You don't need to worry so much about a girl you just met. If you chatted in a fancy way but couldn't make an appointment in the end, it was just a waste of time talking.
Don’t think of chatting as the only way to fall in love. Love is not something you talk about, it’s something you make. She will be interested in you because you are good at talking, but she will not agree to be your girlfriend just because you are good at talking. Think about it, which girl would be intimate with a man she has never met a few times? Chatting with her is nothing more than to understand each other's information at the beginning and to arouse her emotions. Once she shows interest in what you said and feels that chatting with you is interesting and comfortable, don't hesitate to ask her out.
Only on-site dating can achieve the love between two people and truly judge whether the other person is who they understand. Based on the good conversation before, you have successfully stepped into the investigation of her love partner at this time, and she already has feelings for you psychologically. But she can't be sure, after all, you haven't met much, but in order to confirm, she will not refuse your invitation.
