Many people tend to push too hard in relationships due to their personality or lack of experience, resulting in each relationship not lasting long. So what should you do if you always push too hard in a relationship?
< p> People who are prone to exerting too much force in relationships are generally caused by a lack of security, and people who are insecure tend to be very emotional when doing things, so it is difficult to resolve conflicts between the two parties once they arise.For example, some boys will constantly bombard their girlfriends, asking why they never reply to them, and even accuse them of being irresponsible and not loyal to their relationship;
Some girls She will cry non-stop, saying that the other person never knows what she wants and doesn't love her at all.
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If you put it another way and explain your behavior to the other party objectively and realistically, the other party will understand a lot:
"I particularly hope for a stable relationship, but what you have with that girl Being too close makes me feel that I am not good enough, so I will be unhappy because I am worried that if you have too much contact with others, you will start to think that I am not good enough."
"Because I used to. I have a very failed relationship, so I have a psychological shadow. Every time you don’t reply to my messages, I worry whether you are angry with me because what I said is inappropriate, or whether you think I am boring and don’t want to talk to me anymore. In fact, I don’t want you to respond in a certain way, but I hope you can feel that you listen to what I say and that you are still willing to be with me.”
Simply making trouble, crying, is better than communicating. Use your inner thoughts to let the other person really understand your requirements.
Everyone’s growth environment is different. If you simply vent your emotions without putting forward your true demands, the other party will often be confused. .
The above is what we say in response to the demands of people who are prone to exerting too much force in relationships. However, I believe that there must be people who are also concerned about such problems because they have such partners. Therefore, we will mainly talk about what to do if you How should you give the other half of this kind of person a sense of security?
The sense of security of high loyalty requires you to accompany you more and give the other person a sense of difference.
Why do women complain and get angry with their husbands even though they know that their husbands are working outside the home to make money to support the family?
This is because they only feel your high value, but do not truly value it. She truly feels that you are doing it for her own good, so they also need you to be by their side so that they can feel how much you are doing for them.
Let's talk about the sense of difference. There is a kind of person who is disgusting in relationships. He is not bad at all. He is called "central air conditioner".
Being equally nice to everyone means that she is not special to you. If you want to attract a girl, don’t leave this impression on her.
The male protagonist in "Youth" is just because he is a good old man, but when he confesses his love to the goddess, he is considered to be joking, and even It also gave the girls an indescribable feeling of disgust and panic.
Therefore, touch her with unique treatment, make her feel that she is special, and let her feel that you will only show your unknown side in front of her, and she will be moved.
The above, whether it is what you should pay attention to, or what people around you should pay attention to, I should have made it very clear.
You can’t completely eliminate the impact of this incident, but I hope we can do something to make our relationship less turbulent and more stable.
Many times it is due to sunk costs. The more you invest in a relationship, the more you will get out of it
