Techniques and routines for chasing girls are important, but if you only focus on techniques and routines and ignore girls’ feelings, and become the kind of boys that girls dislike, girls may be scared away by you before you even use your skills and routines. . Below, the editor will take you through the types of boys that girls dislike the most and see if you fall for them.
1. Forcibly asking for photos
I think the brothers must go to social software with the purpose of flirting with girls. Yes, after you and a girl get to know each other, you think the girl is good and want to ask her for photos.
However, this behavior itself is not very friendly. You have not shown your photos to the girl, so why should you ask the girl to send you photos?
Generally, girls think that the two of you are The relationship is not enough for her to send you photos. At this time, the girl will find reasons to refuse. The most common ones are "I don't have it on my phone" and "I rarely take pictures."
There is no problem with this, but I believe some brothers will say, "You can take a photo now" or "The one from before is fine too."
The result is often that the girl stops talking. There is also a kind of loser. As long as you don’t send him a photo, he will continue to ask for the girl on the second and third days, and he thinks it is not a mistake. thing, the final result can only be blocked.
2. Deliberately showing off your wealth
A girl gave me an example. Once, she was with a friend. I had a good chat with a boy at a dinner party and added him on WeChat. Originally, the boy was quite good-looking, and she was very happy, but a few days later, he sent a photo to WeChat.
Put your iPhone and Audi car keys on the keyboard, and then send a message, "I'm so tired from working overtime today."
We can understand that you are tired from work, but it is necessary Are you highlighting your iPhone and car keys? To be honest, girls can definitely tell what this guy is thinking.
Mature men all have one characteristic: they are low-key or pursue higher-level things, and they will not show off just because they have a mobile phone or a car.
Deliberately showing off your wealth is seen as disrespectful by a girl. If she is good to you, she will feel like she is being taken care of. Do you think the girl will not reject it?
Originally, the girl had a good impression, so this would neither advance nor retreat. It would only put the girl into an embarrassing predicament.
3. Overconfidence
I think there must be many brothers who have this mentality. Boys It should be clean and simple. I will never use P-picture beauty or anything like that.
So, you sent a high-definition uncensoredHe gave the girl a photo of his head and said confidently: "I won't use beauty. I don't like fake things. This is the real me." Looking at the picture that looked so much like a suicide photo, the girl could only choose Blocked.
To put it bluntly, I have been in this state before. I would go out without washing my hair. It seemed cool, but in fact it was very silly.
Boys like this don’t like real things, but have problems with their own mentality, such as why you wear clothes and why you need to buy new ones when they are old.
It is not hypocritical to retouch your photos and make yourself look more handsome.
4. Forced awkward chat
Many boys have no knowledge reserve in their minds, but they still want to show themselves in front of girls and like to get involved in everything, such as:
"I heard you have a doctorate?"
"Yes, I graduated with a doctorate."
"That's great....What is a doctorate?"
In order to make the girl think that the two of you have a tacit understanding, you pretend to have the same interests. As a result, the girl talks a little deeper and you start to talk nonsense. This will only make the girl feel that you are a hypocritical person.
So brothers, believe in your own personality charm, and don’t deliberately cater to girls. If you can’t seduce girls, you can change it to another one. If you expose your needs too much, girls will only think that you are a low-limb thinker. beast.
