The relationship between us and girls actually went from strangers to familiarity at the beginning. Once we got to know each other during the first chat, we would continue chatting the second time. And depending on the relationship with the girl, the way and content of the chat are also different. So how do you chat with a girl the second time? It also depends on the level of the relationship between you.
1. Confirm the relationship status with the girl
A. Acquaintance stage: Girls often reply to your text messages
B. Ordinary friend stage: Girls follow you You share your emotions
C. Good friend stage: Girls pay attention to you
D. Boy-girlfriend stage: Girls care about you and like to have physical contact with you
2. Confirm the girl’s current emotional and willing state
The first is the choice of timing, preferably mid-week afternoon Around 4 o'clock, because it's generally a leisurely time. Common confirmation methods: "What are you doing?" "How are you doing recently?" "Are you busy?" Then based on the speed, content, and tone of the other person's reply, you can judge the emotional state of the other person. If the other party is in the state, chat more. If the other party is not in the state, stop chatting and start it again another day. It will not be annoying and there is still a chance. Example:
Example 1
Male: What are you doing
The girl did not reply to the message (end the chat without following up)
Example 2
Male: What are you doing
Female: Going to work (this kind of signal is unclear)
Male: I am going to work now, suddenly I think of you (further clarification)
The girl didn’t reply to the message (end the chat)
Or the girl replied: Haha, I was just looking at my phone when I had nothing to do (indicating that I was willing to chat)< /p>
Male: Yes, I am not busy right now, so I sent you a message, wondering what you are doing (girls are interested, that is, status + feeling + attention reply)
Narrator: Of course, you don’t need to use (status + feeling + attention) all the time when chatting. Just express the nodes at critical times. In short, chatting is a It is not a simple matter, but it is also a flexible and changeable matter that requires more learning and careful attention to details. The essence of chatting is a process of slow work and meticulous work. The best state is "sneaking into the night with the wind, moisturizing things silently". Don't be too indifferent, but don't pursue eye-catching sentences. In essence, do it first. Good ordinary friends, let’s move forward.
3. Understand girls’ chatting interests
Before chatting with a girl for the second time, boys can first understand the girl’s interests, such as which movies she likes, which directors, which actors and stars, What kind of books do you like to read and who do you like to read? In short, you should take the initiative first.To understand a girl's interests, usually the question-and-answer method is the easiest way to increase understanding. However, you should pay attention to the interaction and try to be humorous. You ask, she answers, and then you can talk about yourself. If her answer is interesting to you, , or if they have something in common with you, you can use this to your advantage. Take a look at her space, Moments, etc., look at what she posts, read her comments, and you can get a rough idea of ??her preferences and chat style. Relationships between strangers usually rely on some things to maintain and get together because of things, so to maintain the relationship naturally, first find something you can do together, such as what kind of help you ask her for, so that you can often talk to her. She chatted...
How to chat with a girl for the second time is to deepen your understanding of each other. In the process of understanding, you will naturally get to know each other. Girls have endless things to say.
