There is generally a process for chasing girls, even for girls you know on a blind date. So how long does it usually take to chase a girl on a blind date, and how should you chase a girl?
1. How long does it take to pursue a blind date girl
Three to six months.
The most suitable time to pursue a girl on a blind date is three months, and no more than six months at most. This time is enough to understand a person and like a person. If you delay it for too long, it will not harm anyone. Well, it will probably become a spare tire.
2. How to chase girls on a blind date
1. Observe the other person’s dynamics
Through the introduction of the introducer, after the two parties get acquainted, if the other party does not behave very well towards you If you are positive, then it is very likely that I don’t like you very much, but I don’t hate you either. I have a mentality of not being impatient and letting nature take its course. Therefore, you should not rush for success, otherwise you will have the opposite effect. .
2. Maintain a good attitude
Although it is the introducer who makes the connection between you and the two of you, it does not mean that the girl must be your lover. The two parties are just acquaintances. The process of getting to know each other and getting along again. If you get along with a girl with the mentality that you are the other person's lover, then because of your different psychological position, you will demand too much from the other person, or you will be eager to get the other person's love for you, so the results you get will make you disappointed.
3. Start from scratch
If the two parties know each other and become a love relationship, it is because The two sides have a lot in common while joining together. A romantic relationship introduced by an introducer is just an introduction of two strangers together. Therefore, both parties must understand each other, and their respective interests, hobbies, ideals, and pursuits can truly connect and resonate with each other, so that they can be happily combined.
4. True feelings
If you always feel that the other person’s attitude is not positive, or it is difficult to figure out and guess the other person’s heart, then communicate with the other person and express your feelings towards the other person. Really reveal the other person's likes and feelings to the other person, and solicit their opinions and thoughts. Because some relatives’ opinions are based on parents’ opinions, which are not their own wishes, it will cause the other party to have conflicting emotions and attitudes.
5. Communicate with the introducer
If the other party always remains lukewarm, lukewarm If you have a tepid attitude, then communicate with the introducer. Because we have just started to get to know each other and are not familiar with each other. We have many things that are on our minds and it is not convenient for the other party to tell you. You can find out the specific situation from the introducer.
6. Love cannot be forced
Although you like the other person very much and have worked hard and pursued it, you still can't get the other person's true love. Maybe the other party just considers the relationship as the introducer, and because of face, it is difficult to say no to you. Then keep calm for the time being and don't pursue it too actively, because love cannot be forced.
