There is no girl in this world who doesn’t like opening express gifts. Receiving a gift means that she is liked and welcomed by others. This is a feeling that no girl will refuse.
But when many boys chase girls to give gifts, they always encounter the embarrassing situation of being rejected. Why is this?
Generally speaking, if a girl doesn’t accept your gift, it’s probably because she doesn’t like you, but knowing that you like her, accepting the gift means establishing a special relationship.
If your relationship is ordinary, then she doesn’t want to owe you anything, so she must refuse.
If you are relatively good friends, then she has never thought about developing a relationship with you as a boyfriend and girlfriend, but your gifts contain obvious pursuit signals (such as flowers, or unprovoked gifts). If you give her some valuable and exquisite items under certain circumstances), then she is conveying an attitude to you: she thinks the current relationship is very good, she wants to maintain a friend relationship with you, does not want to have an affair, and does not want to take advantage of your affection for her. What feelings do for her.
In fact, it is normal for ordinary friends to give gifts to each other, but there must be an excuse (such as her birthday, you are on a business trip/travel) ), and you have not revealed your need for her at the same time, then the girl will completely accept it if you give her some non-ambiguous gifts.
One of the more obvious characteristics of a girl who refuses to accept a gift because she doesn’t like it is that after she realizes that you like her, she will avoid it no matter what you give her. If a girl doesn't accept your gift at all, it means that you are temporarily unable to favor her by giving gifts.
However, we have found that some girls will sometimes accept your gifts and sometimes reject them. Why is this?
Maybe, she actually likes you a little bit. The emotion was there, but I was not mentally prepared. Accepting the gift means that the relationship has turned ambiguous, and she doesn't know where you will go after the ambiguity.
If what you give her is not something she likes, or it is something she doesn’t need, for example, she already has dozens of lipsticks. , you also gave her lipstick, but she felt that it was useless to take it back and she still owed a favor, so she naturally refused. But if you give her a gift that she likes, she will still choose to accept it after some hesitation.
Many brothers always have a headache when giving gifts to girls, and this is the problem. I really don’t know what she likes, and I’m afraid I gave it to the wrong person. If she doesn’t like it, I’ll give it to her for nothing, or even return it directly, which would be too embarrassing.
So the question is, how do you give a gift so that you can create a good impression in a girl’s heart?
It is better to give the right gift than to give it expensively.Gifts are used to express feelings. If she doesn't want something, no matter how expensive it is, it will be useless to her. Give her a gift that she likes, even if it is cheap, it can bring her joy.
Let’s learn about these correct gestures for giving gifts:
1. Pay more attention to what she said and take a surprise
For example, when a girl is chatting with you, she casually mentions: "I particularly like pink lilies, and I like the smell very much."
Then when you invite her out to play in two days, hand her one. A bouquet of lilies is more romantic than kneeling down to propose to her while holding a large bouquet of flowers.
2. Give her something she wants but can’t bear to buy
For example She had her eye on a dress that cost more than a thousand yuan, but she had always been frugal and had never bought clothes worth more than a thousand yuan. She kept putting them in the shopping cart and was reluctant to buy them.
This kind of gift can touch a girl’s heart the most. As long as she doesn’t hate you, it will be difficult for her to refuse your kindness. Not only does it most accurately hit girls' preferences, but it also has the flavor of providing timely help.
If you really don’t know what she likes but is reluctant to buy, there is a principle that may be useful to you:
For example, a bottle of Coke costs 3 yuan, but there are also some on the market. There are many special-flavored Cokes that cost more than ten or twenty yuan a bottle. Most people will not buy these if they want to drink drinks, but they only want to order a bottle occasionally. So giving her a "noble item" among ordinary items, even if she doesn't like it, is still a decent surprise for her.
3. Don’t always give the same type of things over and over again.
Many people always give the same kind of gifts. They always give the same type of things every time. Too many girls will actually create a strong sense of boredom.
For example, lipstick is a relatively easy choice for boys among girls, and you can buy big brands for a few hundred yuan, so many boys really don’t know when to give it as a gift. , just buy her a more expensive lipstick.
But if you give lipsticks over and over again, and if you give them too much, the girl won’t be able to use them all. If you give them to her again, she will either leave them there until they expire, or she won’t use them, or she will give them to her best friends. It means your thoughts are wasted.
Come up with something unique and creative. For example, she is out of town and misses the food in her hometown. If you can give her a specialty food from her hometown, you can’t go wrong.
When it comes to gifting cosmetics, the probability of mistakes is too high for boys. After all, we don’t usually use this thing and don’t understand it at all. .Here are two small suggestions for brothers:
Don’t send sets
To male compatriots, complete sets of cosmetics are a huge pitfall. If you don’t give them well, you can easily be cheated. Call me cancer for straight men!
Because most boys don’t know much about this aspect and cannot identify brands and types. The suits you buy are most likely low-end practice suits, or cheap commercial ones from cosmetics stores. goods. Girls will never use such a thing. If she gets it, she will feel very embarrassed and think you are stupid and straight.
About color
Color is also one of the big pitfalls. I don’t know what colors girls like. After taking your things, she may just throw them away and eat dust. Generally speaking, it is basically right to give away current fashionable items.
But we can also do the opposite: if you know that girls do not lack cosmetics, and cosmetics are not what she just needs, you can specially send some brighter and exaggerated colors to gain a good reputation. Fresh, this is also a good choice.
