Chasing a girl, but the relationship has not made any progress after chasing for a long time, and there is even a tendency to go backwards? Today, the editor will teach you one of the easiest techniques to get closer to you: anchoring.
What is a heart anchor? In fact, it is very simple. It is a conditioned reflex produced by the link between a certain mood and behavior, a certain action or expression in a person's heart.
Implanting a heart anchor is to create a link between the two of you. Once this link is touched, the other person's emotions will be mobilized.
This kind of link may be presented in a variety of forms, including language, behavior, or expression.
Now I will tell you how to quickly bring you closer to the girl you like by implanting a heart anchor.
1. Exclusive nicknames
Don’t be stupid and give girls some “short-legged” nicknames like you did when you were a kid. "Son" and "Little Fat Girl" make fun of other people's nicknames. I am not responsible for being beaten.
You must first understand that the purpose of giving a nickname is to bring two people closer, so it must be interesting and acceptable.
The most important thing is that this nickname should be unique. If everyone calls her that, it will not show the specialness if you call her again.
This is a little nickname between you two. As soon as she hears this title, she will think of you and the good memories between you. You know? It can be very useful.
Otherwise, why would couples pick up some nicknames that others don’t know about? One is because they appear more intimate, and the other is because of exclusivity.
So if you have a girl you like and her friends call her by her nickname, you can find another way. I can give you some specific suggestions:
The first one is one word in the name + occupation.
The couple I’m having sex with recently got together through the love variety show “Dream Space”. The girl is an English teacher, and the boy playfully calls her Teacher Sheep.
Of course, you don’t have to be a teacher to be called that. This kind of title is very common among couples. In fact, this way not only will it not appear out of place, but it will also not be too intimate. Even if others are present, you will not feel embarrassed.
The second type is cute animals or cartoon characters.
Putting the word "小" in front of the name will make people feel more friendly, right? Especially if it is named after a small animal or cartoon character, it will be more cute and friendly.
I used to have a colleague. We often ate together and we had a good relationship. One time, I wore a coat with a circle of white lace at the hem. She said it looked like lamb's wool, so she nicknamed me "Little Sheep." ..
Although, for the sake of being quite cute, I happily accepted it.
So, girls generally don’t dislike such cute nicknames. For example, if she likes Mickey Mouse or she is born in the year of the mouse, you can say: "Why did you get into trouble with the mouse? I'll just call you Minnie from now on."
The third type is the duplication of names.
For example, if her name is Chen Jingyi (named blindly), and others call her Jingyi, you can call her Yiyi. Doesn’t it seem more friendly?
The fourth type is memory points in interaction.
For example, when you were playing Werewolf together, she won the identity of the prophet, and with her intelligence, she passed the signal to everyone and successfully kicked out the werewolves.
The game process is a great opportunity to promote feelings. So you can call her "Prophet" and when you talk about that name in the future, she will be able to recall your interactions at that time.
2. Chat "secret code"
Once when I was chatting with a colleague, she sent a I laughed out loud at the emoticon because that emoticon looked exactly like my best friend’s boyfriend.
I immediately sent this emoticon to my best friend, and she was also happy because it really looked like it.
Since then, every time I see this emoticon, I think of that scene.
So, using this "secret code" effect can leave a deep impression on girls.
For example, when chatting, she often uses a certain emoticon package, or even makes her own emoticon package, so that even if she is chatting with others, she will think of you once she uses this emoticon.
In addition to emoticons, a sentence with your distinctive characteristics can also play a good role in implanting a heart anchor.
This is like the mantra of some people. When I think of this person, I think of this sentence, and when I hear this sentence, I think of this person.
For example, at the end of every chat, ask: "Are you happy today?"
Adults' emotions are really being tested all the time, and they are unhappy. It's a common thing.
At this time, there is someone who cares about her happiness, anger, sorrow and joy every day. Who can bear this?
So, every time when she is in a bad mood, she will I think of your words and want to chat with you.
When she is happy, she will also think that there is such a person who has been caring about her emotions, so she will also want to share her happiness with you. To this extent, the heart anchor has been implanted very successfully.
3. Expression Anchor
When it comes to an impressive expression, who do you think of?
I think of Xu Kai. Remember to watch TV seriesWhen playing "Army Academy", he especially liked wink (wink). Since then, I have discovered that the skill of wink seems to have become popular on the Internet (maybe it is my illusion).
But every time I see someone else doing this action, I can’t help but think of him, and then compare it with him, and I feel that he looks the best when winking, haha.
You see, if you do a certain expression too much, it will become a person’s characteristic and memory point. This may be the influence of repeated reinforcement.
So what is your special expression?
Some boys like to smile crookedly, some boys like to make faces, and some boys will giggle when they are embarrassed.
In fact, everyone’s performance is different. You don’t necessarily have to develop a “sign” for yourself. Find your own characteristics, amplify it, and show it when facing girls. Over time, , it becomes your image endorsement in the hearts of girls.
4. Behavior anchor
Between boys, sometimes when brothers meet, there will always be some "Meeting ceremony", like high fives, shoulder bumps, etc.
In fact, this kind of behavior is very interesting, because their origin must have meaning.
Every time they do these actions, they will recall some memories of when they first met and knew each other. This is what happens to friends with deep feelings.
There is definitely no need for such a complicated ceremony when meeting ordinary friends.
In fact, young guys can also learn from this trick when chasing girls.
Establishing a secret code of actions that belong to the two of you can make it easier for her to remember you.
For example, every time you meet, you will intentionally look at her outfit and then praise her.
This is actually a kind of respect for girls and will also stimulate girls’ enthusiasm.
As we all know, it is really not easy for a girl to go out. You can go out for 20 minutes, but it may take her 2 hours. If you turn a blind eye, the enthusiasm she originally expected will cool down. Half of it.
And when boys notice their outfits and can comment on them, they will actually be very happy and feel that these two hours were not wasted, and they will be willing to go out with you next time.
When you make this a habit, you will actually surpass many boys, and in the hearts of girls, they will be full of expectations every time they see you.
