A girl who is extremely insecure in her heart will always have a fear of failure, so she will be very cautious in her relationship, making her pursuers feel unapproachable. So if you like such a girl, how should you pursue her?
1. Take girls to an environment where there is "insecurity"
Because of the long-standing social influence , girls will unconsciously look for men to rely on, and this feeling will be particularly strong when encountering danger. Therefore, it is certain that girls will be more favored in an environment where there is "insecurity".
For example: watch a horror movie together, go to a tourist amusement park for adventure on Sunday, participate in outdoor thrilling outdoor activities, etc., when the girl’s frightened hiss is combined with your fearless sound of relief When we are together, love will happen!
2. Become a secure man in your bones
In method one, the sense of security that you use the environment you receive to give girls is the basis for making girls like you, but it does not last long. If you want to really improve the sense of security for the girl you like, you can You have to increase your personality charm and completely conquer her.
(1) Have your own life goals and plans. Boys should have lofty ideals, establish their own life goals, and have clear vision and plans. This will give girls a feeling that they can be entrusted to them for life. In reality, many boys are greedy for comfort and have no illusions. Only men who are aggressive and pursue success can make girls look at you differently. But remember, you need to make a girl feel that all your future career plans are related to her.
(2) Be calm and decisive when doing things. Many men are hesitant in doing things and lack ideas and strategies for doing things. Some even go back on their word and even like to pass the responsibility to others. In that case, in the woman's mind, you are not a real man and someone you can rely on. Of course, you will not There is a sense of security.
(3) Become considerate. When girls are in trouble in study or work, when girls are arguing with others, when girls are in conflict with their parents, their hearts are extremely sensitive at this time, and their sense of security is basically zero. At this time, give her A warm hug, touching her head with concern, advice or comfort will greatly encourage a girl.
Don’t feel tired, this is actually just a way.
(4) Have a certain economic foundation. Some people may ask whether the sense of security girls want is love or money. The question is very realistic, but a more realistic response is, "The passion will one day be exhausted by oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. There is no true love without toast." "Give girls who have no way to feel a sense of security." Therefore, there is a probability that a poor commoner can make girls feel a sense of security.It's not easy. After all, it’s hard to live without money.
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3. Avoid behaviors that make girls feel insecure
A girl is a person with a strong "first "Six senses" items, some behaviors of boys are most likely to touch the nerves of girls, making them feel excluded, forgotten, and abandoned, and then they are in an anxious state of mind, showing an extremely insecure state. of anxiety. So, what behaviors of boys make girls feel particularly insecure?
(1) They always hide and tuck when they sit together and check their mobile phones (since you know not to open a store for business or fun) Mobile games, who doesn’t understand not to flirt with other girls in front of her?)
(2) There is no choice but to have a cold war between the two, so it is better to fight with her
( 3) Often mentions his ex
(4) Professional in chatting with girls
(5) Has no idea about anything and is unmotivated
(6) Stingy (funny) I still have another problem. I save money on movie coupons, but I am willing to buy Louis Vuitton for girls. If I spend too much money, I am considered stingy.)
(7) Habitual lying (Goebbels once said However, hypocrisy repeated a thousand times is the absolute truth. As long as you don’t panic, just always say it big)
(8) Don’t want to hear girls complain (pretend to be very attentive, and then hug and coax them) )
Girls who are insecure inside are very sensitive. When chasing her, if there is even the slightest thing that makes her feel unsafe, she will be scared away. Therefore, there must be some ways to chase them. The difference is, don't be too proactive without considering the gains and losses.