The term "dog licking" is a relatively popular term in the relationship between the sexes recently. I believe everyone is familiar with it. It mainly refers to those who know that the other party does not like them, but repeatedly use hot facial stickers without any dignity or bottom line. Cold ass people.
Then do you know why so many licking dogs know that the other person doesn’t like them, but they still run to kneel and lick them?
After a long period of summary, the emotional editor believes that there are the following three reasons:
1. There are too few female resources and a single goal
The female resources around us The characteristic of a small number of boys is that they think that it is not easy for them to meet someone they like, or that they have a chance, and then they tend to treat the other person as a treasure or a life-saving straw. In the end, there was only one goal, one bargaining chip.
Therefore, because of love, he easily ignores his own dignity, lowers his bottom line, and pursues with the obsession of "I have to be you." And the "chasing" at this time is "licking". Just like the popular saying in the dog licking circle, "If I don't really like it, who would be willing to lick it?", who is willing to chase her?
2. Mistakenly thinking that you can chase a girl by being nice to her.
The characteristic of this type of boys is that they don’t know how to chase girls, and they don’t understand the methods and techniques of chasing girls, so they have no choice but to pay blindly and be nice to girls, thinking that they can successfully chase girls if they are nice to girls. arrive.
Anyone who understands knows that girls are not just chased, but attracted.
3. Misunderstanding that girls accept you because they like you
The characteristics of this type of boys are Unknowingly, he played the role of "dog licker".
For example, when many buddies are chasing girls, they will take care of them, give them gifts, buy flowers and so on. This is normal, but sometimes girls will not refuse the efforts of these guys. Once a girl does not refuse, these guys will mistakenly think that the girl's acceptance of the gift means she has accepted him, and simply think "she must like me, otherwise" How could you accept my gift?"
So, over time, I kept licking it. This kind of person usually cannot catch up in the end, and in the end he only touches himself, or falls into the spare tire area.
So to sum up, the reason why there are so many dog ??lickers now is mainly because they only have one goal and at the same time they don’t have any skills or methods to pursue girls, or they don’t understand the basic principles of pursuing girls, so they have no choice but to blindly pursue girls. to give; but in the end, too much was given, causing one to lose principles and dignity, and thus became a licking dog.
Then how to chase girls without becoming a bitch?
1. Adjustment of posture
For example, if you only have this goal, you just like it This girl, I just want to chase her, I don’t want anything else.
At this time, you have to understand that even so, you can't lick her, and you can't hang around her all day because of this. On the contrary, you should enrich your life, balance her place in your heart, and balance her importance.
This is not to tell you not to like her, nor is it to tell you to give up. It means that you need to understand the correct way, or concept, of pursuing a girl.
If you hang around her all day long, not only will you easily become a licker, but such behavior will also make girls think that you are an inferior product who does nothing, has no charm, and has no value. This is the biggest problem. .
Therefore, you should spend more time to enrich yourself, improve your charm and value, and rely on your own charm to attract girls, rather than relying on blind efforts to chase and impress girls.
2. Have your own dignity and bottom line.
This does not mean that when a girl does not reply to you, you have to ask the girl "Why don't you reply!?" This is not your dignity, this is your disrespect for the girl.
A dignified and bottom-line approach is that you should first reflect on why she didn’t reply to you. What is the reason? Is it the wrong topic? Or do you simply not have the qualities to attract her? Then stop the loss in time and withdraw. , don’t continue to pester, don’t continue to kneel and lick it. Improve and change your shortcomings first, don't fall in love with someone cold butt.
So at this time you have to wait for the girl’s reply. If she doesn’t reply, contact her again in a few days, or every half a month.
Of course, you must change and improve yourself during this period, because cutting off contact is to give you dignity and a bottom line, but essentially if you want to catch up with a girl, you still have to rely on attraction.
3. We must know how to balance each other's efforts and guide each other's investment
Since we are chasing girls, we must pay. However, for a couple to be together and for a love to be sweet, they must pay for each other.
For example, when a girl asks you for help, if you help her, this is your contribution. Then you can guide the girl to give to you. This contribution also includes money, energy, and emotions.
For example:
It would be more appropriate for the girl you like to ask you to help see how to do this task. After you finish helping, girls will usually say thank you to you. At this time, you can guide the girls to make emotional contributions to you. For example, you can say to her, "Shouldn't I be rewarded with a little red flower~", or "Shouldn't I be rewarded with a little red flower~".
If a girl will also give to you, reward you with little red flowers, or say nice things to you, then your relationship will be balanced and you are giving to each other. Only in this way can the relationship be more fulfilling.Good progress will be sweeter and more stable.
Remember, guiding girls to give is not to ask you to ask for it blindly. The key is to balance your efforts in this matter and relationship. When you achieve this, the kneeling and licking behavior of dog licking will naturally disappear.
