In fact, it is easy for boys to lose confidence when they meet a girl they like, especially when they meet a girl with good conditions. Even if they like her, they don't dare to pursue her. On the one hand, he is afraid that his pursuit will be rejected by girls, and on the other hand, he feels that his conditions are not worthy of the other party. Let me analyze for you how to pursue a girl with good conditions? How to get her to notice you?
1. Increase your ability to get along with girls
When you go to some parties, you may meet girls who are in good condition in all aspects. Okay, very cute. At this time, you will think, how can I catch up with this girl? If you are usually a bit of a homebody and don't have much emotional experience, and you suddenly meet this kind of girl you particularly like, you won't be able to pursue her. To be honest, emotions are also a kind of ability, and you need to stay online.
If you lack the ability to get along with the opposite sex and suddenly encounter a big boss, how can you possibly handle it? I suggest you treat it as a kind of baptismal mentality adjustment, learn from it, and lay the foundation for you to chase her in the future.
However, for some people who are more homely and lack communication skills, suddenly meeting someone they particularly like, the result is often disappointing. We found in offline emotional training that the people who can come to participate in the training are basically those who have been emotionally injured, or a girl who really can't handle it came here. This kind of disappointment and pain is the best motivation for people to change and forge ahead.
2. Improve one’s competitiveness
In the current relationship between men and women, the person they like is generally It is higher than oneself. Especially for girls, what they value is basically those with better conditions than themselves. Boys also have similar characteristics. The people they like are basically young beauties. And this kind of girl is already very popular, so naturally the success rate of getting along with her is not high.
Faced with the pursuit of the better-off opposite sex, it is obvious that both boys and girls will prefer those who are more competitive with the opposite sex. If you want to pursue a girl with good conditions, the same principle applies. As long as you are a high-quality partner in her heart, your success rate in pursuing her will be much higher. Also, when we are chasing girls, we should not be too obsessed with those who cannot get it. Instead, we should take this as an opportunity to improve and change ourselves, such as doing the following bonus points:
Appearance: hairstyle, beard, facial cleaning, skin protection, learn simple makeup;
Clothing: change your dressing style and buy some new clothes ;
Finance: work hard and increase income;
Traffic: get to know more girls.
These are the essential contents of a person’s competitiveness with the opposite sex. You only need to make a little progress in each of them, and you will be able toGet a completely different situation.
After working hard to improve yourself, when one day you meet a girl with better conditions in all aspects, you will have enough motivation and confidence to pursue her, and only then will she notice you.
