I find that many friends always talk about "I love you, I love you", but in my opinion, many people simply cannot distinguish between like and love, so today I will give you some popular science Let’s look at the difference between liking and loving! Let’s see if you like her or love her.
Some people say:
To like is to be unbridled, to love is to be restrained;
To like There are many individuals, but there is only one person who loves;
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So, what is the difference between liking and loving?
The first difference:< /h2>
Falling in love with someone is not that romantic.
Sometimes, you like a person for four reasons: proximity, similarity, fairness, and physical attractiveness.
Similarity: being close makes it easier to talk;
Similarity: having the same interests, hobbies and outlook, making it easy to chat;
Fairness: The other person likes you, you are moved, and you also like the other person;
Physical attractiveness.
But really falling in love with someone is a very romantic thing. Psychologist Sternberg believes that true love is the perfect combination of passion, intimacy and responsibility.
Passion: It makes people feel electric shock, their pupils dilate, and their heart beats faster;
Intimacy: It means always wanting to stay close and connected with the other person;
Responsibility: It is the commitment to the relationship;
To truly fall in love with someone, both are indispensable.
Only intimacy is like, only passion is infatuation, and only responsibility is empty love.
The second difference:
Different focus!
University of Chicago A study shows that your lover will pay more attention to your face, while your partner will pay more attention to your body. So: Liking is loving your body, and love is liking your soul.
When we like someone, we focus on joy and trust.
When we love someone, we will idealize them and think that everything about them is good. This will lead to inferiority complex.
Like makes us happy, love makes us crazy.
When you fall in love with someone, oxytocin is produced. Oxytocin is the hormone dedicated to love. On the one hand, lovers can trust and understand each other, but on the other hand, they can easily become jealous, jealous and hostile.
Liking and attraction are the results of dopamine and norepinephrine.
So now you can distinguish whether you like her or love her?
