Many boys repeatedly run into obstacles on the road to chasing girls, not because their own conditions are not good, but because they do not have the correct routines and methods. Below, the editor will share with you the top 8 tricks used by experts to chase girls. It is enough to learn half of them.
Eight tricks for masters to chase girls:
1. If you have no desire, a strong mentality is king
Remember one sentence: "Chasing girls" is just to create an opportunity for each other to get to know each other.
Don’t think that “pursuit” means doing your best to be nice to him, and then move him so that he has no reason not to be with you.
As for chat, it is actually a medium for information exchange and value output. In fact, it is to create an opportunity for each other to understand each other, what kind of person you are, what kind of attitude towards life you have, and what are the points of attraction in you.
Therefore, pursuing a girl, to put it bluntly, is to make the girl curious about you and make her like you through attraction points.
2. Attract her rather than impress her
Many friends get this wrong! They try to make women like them by being reasonable, pleasing, and kneeling and licking her. In fact, attraction is an emotional feeling, a biological instinct, which cannot be changed by being moved. The only thing that can be moved is a woman's logic. Even if she logically knows that you are right for her and suitable for her, she has no emotional feelings for you and will still reject you. Because moving is not a feeling, there are too many men who receive good guy cards from women, and this is the reason.
3. No color, no interest.
To be honest, in love, whether it is a boy or a girl, most of them start from seeing the color.
Human beings are actually visual animals. In other words, from the first moment a girl sees you, she has already classified you based on your external image, roughly into strangers, ordinary friends, or options that can develop into a boyfriend.
Therefore, improving your clothes, cultivating your own aesthetic attitude, and rationalizing your self-packaging are all the tickets to make girls have sexual impulses towards you.
Don’t ask me if there is such a thing as “faceless” love in this world. After all, in today’s society, no one has the obligation to explore the so-called interesting soul through a sloppy appearance, let alone love.
4. Three points of ambiguity and seven points of mystery
Just because you like a girl doesn’t mean you have to spend twenty hours Chat with her and bombard girls with messages. Sometimes even if a girl replies enthusiastically, it's not that she really likes you, but that she has nothing to do recently.
Men who have things to do and ideals to pursue are often more favored by girls. Don’t always find a girl to chat with. If she gets enthusiastic feedback, chat more often.At one point, when the conversation gets to a high point, you will show your value and leave.
Don’t say everything before you get together, and leave some room for mystery for yourself. Let girls take the initiative to explore your life, which is far more effective than if you completely withdraw from it.
5. Pay attention to her emotions rather than logic
When we get along with a woman, we should not be reasonable with her. Emotions are unreasonable. What we need to pay attention to is women's emotions, because love itself is an emotion. Many men are accustomed to thinking rationally and logically, and are too straight when getting along with women, making women feel boring and boring, wasting their own conditions, and being evaluated by women as unattractive men.
In a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, you quickly break through the stranger stage and can communicate normally; in an interesting and attractive atmosphere, girls gradually develop curiosity and affection for you; in an ambiguous and romantic atmosphere , your relationship will heat up, and you will gradually move closer to your boyfriend and girlfriend. This is about her emotions rather than her logic.
6. Strange environments are the catalyst for love
People in strange environments can’t help but grasp the familiar things, and the same is true in love.
When pursuing a girl, you have to lead her to come into contact with some new things that she has never experienced before.
Take her to some unfamiliar environments to experience some experiences she has never had before. In a strange environment, time will pass very slowly and people will be more likely to feel excited. At the same time, the strangeness of their world will greatly highlight your dependability. These beautiful moments may become the key to her heart.
7. Invest in yourself instead of women
If you bloom, butterflies will come. There are too many men who would rather spend money on women, send red envelopes and gifts to women, than spend money on themselves. When a woman wears the clothes you give her and uses the cosmetics you buy, her value becomes higher and she becomes more attractive. But you are frugal and look shabby, so what can you do to attract women?
8. Seize the window and don’t miss it
There is a so-called window period in love. Within the window period, you can quickly warm up your relationship with a woman. Once you miss the window period, women will no longer give you a chance. When many people meet a girl they like, they always want to get to know each other first and then talk about warming up the relationship. In fact, when you get to know each other well, your attraction is no longer mysterious in her eyes, and she no longer has any curiosity about you, and the window is closed!
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