Before chasing a girl, what boys want to know most is whether the girl also likes them. So today I will teach you how to tell that she likes you from the details of the chat.
1. Asking for help topics
In layman’s terms, it means that a girl asks you Ask for your advice or suggestions, ask for your help. However, not all requests for help are manifestations of goodwill, and we need to make further judgments.
1. No favorable opinion or average favorable opinion
“Please help me like the first post in the circle of friends”
“My phone is out of charge. Transfer 200 to me and I’ll return it to you tomorrow."
For small things like the above with clear needs, she "asks" you with a cold attitude, and even gives you the feeling that "she is in a hurry" , is usually not considered a sign that a girl is interested in you.
Because she could have gone to someone else for such a trivial matter, but she chose you instead. You know, if you have been single for a long time, but suddenly someone of the opposite sex comes to chat with you, you might as well ask yourself at this time, "Why me?"
It may be that she has always done this before, and her friends around her have been disturbed by it. She considered that only you would pay attention to her, so she came to you. To put it bluntly, she just needs someone who can help her free of charge anytime and anywhere.
And such people are usually called spare tires. Girls are mostly grateful and grateful, and will not have feelings. < /p>
Or provide appropriate help based on your actual situation. Remember not to pay silently over and over again.
2. Shallow favorable impression
"My computer is broken, can you install the system?"< /p>
"Please help me see which of these two skirts looks better."
It's the same as asking for help, but the difficulty of help has increased. It's no longer "all you need is a hand" little things. (Maybe installing the system is a piece of cake for you, but not everyone is like that)
Or she is asking for your opinion and asking you to help her judge. These all show that she cares about your feelings. At the very least, she trusts your abilities/character/aesthetics, etc.
Generally speaking, if you can feel that she values ??and admires you during the chat, it is enough to show that she has the most basic affection for you.
It should be noted that if it happens once or twice, or even the difficulty of helping her gradually increases, it can be regarded as a sign that she has a good impression of you and is testing you;
But if there is more than one girlIf someone asks you for the same type of help for the first time, you may be regarded as a "tool person" and you must learn to refuse appropriately.
Second, privacy topics
It involves the relationship history and family members of both parties, some of which are more personal. topic. Generally speaking, the more two people know about each other's private affairs, the more unusual the relationship will be.
1. No favorable impression or average favorable impression
"Where do you live?"
"How old are you this year?"
Yes My friend was shocked when he saw a girl express her "willingness to get to know her" and thought that this was a sign that the other party was interested in her. In fact, it was not always true, and most likely it was not.
If a girl asks you the above "basic information", it just means that you must have known each other for a short time and lack understanding of each other. Talking about these things is just casual chatting and has no other meaning.
However, there are exceptions. For example, if you both work out of town and a girl asks, "Where is your home from?" something like this.
Although they are also asking for basic information, some girls who have had love experience often consider practical factors.
Unless she is particularly fond of you, "home is close" or "home is in a big city" is her priority condition. Only if it is met can she develop further. The same goes for issues such as age.
2. Superficial liking
"Are there many girls chasing you?"
"Do you often chat with other girls?"
When a girl asks similar questions, it means that she is relatively satisfied with your previous interactions and has the most basic affection for you.
The reason why you ask this is because your attraction is too high, so high that it makes her feel insecure, but she also has a desire to control in her heart and just wants you to belong to her. one person.
It is not recommended to respond positively in this case, because the need for a positive response is too heavy and can easily bring excessive pressure to the other party.
When she feels too much pressure, she will want to avoid you. You can use counter-selling to transfer this part of the pressure back.
For example, when a girl asks "Do you often chat with girls?" you can reply "So are you jealous?" and throw the question back to the girl.
No matter how she answers, we can take the initiative in chatting.
Just like in the example just now, if a girl answers "jealous", you can just say "Then confess your love to me now, and I will not chat with other girls in the future";
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If a girl says “I’m not jealous,” you should say, “You’re not jealous of our relationship?I won’t be with you anymore." After that, the direction of your chat will be completely under your control.
To sum up, judging a girl’s liking for you from the chat mainly depends on these points. :
If you are asking for help, there is a direct relationship between the degree of liking and the difficulty of helping. Girls who like you will care about your opinions, follow your suggestions appropriately, and will not ask for endless requests;
If it is a private topic, asking for emotional privacy is more favorable than asking for basic information, and when she is most interested in you, you should give her enough space to pursue you.
