Falling in love is a process of running-in. It is normal to have small frictions during this period. After a quarrel, as long as the boy coaxes you a little, you can reconcile. But there will also be special situations, that is, you fall into a cold war after a quarrel, and your girlfriend ignores you. What should you do in this situation?
What should you do if you have a cold war with your girlfriend after a quarrel?
1. Take the initiative to hug the other person
When a Cold War occurs, the two sides must have conflicts. If neither side gives in, and the problem cannot be solved, they will adopt a Cold War approach. During the quarrel, the two people were quite excited. When the quarrel broke out and they were shouting hoarse, both parties were furious. Neither party admitted that it was their fault. After the quarrel, the two parties became calm. At this time, they calmly entered the cold war period. No one wants to pay attention to the other person. Seeing the other person is like not seeing the other person, completely treating the other person as nothing.
Two people are in this state. If the man takes the initiative, it is very easy to break the status quo. He can take the initiative to give the other person a hug, lower his body appropriately and admit his mistakes. It doesn’t matter if a big man admits a small mistake. What if you win the fight when two people get along? If you take the initiative to give the other person a hug, all conflicts will disappear in an instant. This is not a shameful thing. This is the most direct way to restore your relationship.
2. Communicate more
We all know that a slap in the face can’t make a difference, and there will be a cold war between the two parties during the relationship. Both of them have made mistakes, and it cannot be the fault of the other party. First of all, you must sort out the clues and don't just quarrel blindly. Any conflicts that arise are caused by poor communication between the two parties. At this time, the man should take the initiative to sit down with his girlfriend and have a good talk. After a quarrel, the woman rarely takes the initiative. The most important thing is for both parties to sit down and analyze where the problem lies and how to solve it, rather than focusing on anger.
More communication between two people is the basis for solving all problems. Even if you are emotional and cannot control yourself at the time, you can communicate after calming down and minimize the time of the cold war, because neither party will give in to the final result. More problems will arise, such as mutual suspicion and doubt whether the other party is sincere. The longer it is delayed, the more fragile the relationship will be. Men should seek opportunities to communicate with each other in time to eliminate the barriers in each other's hearts.
3. You can find a friend to coordinate.
A cold war occurred during the relationship, and the woman refused to take the initiative. Suing for peace, but the man is unwilling to bow his head and admit his mistake. If the stalemate continues like this, more serious problems will arise. At this time, if there is a friend that both parties know, preferably a female friend of the woman, the boy can ask her to come forward to coordinate, and the two of them can Communication will be more effective, and then we can make an appointment for the three of usSit together and resolve conflicts face to face. Only by eliminating conflicts can the relationship go further.
