If you have nothing to do with a girl, then whether or not someone is chasing her has nothing to do with you, and the girl will not go out of her way to tell you that she is being chased. But if a girl clearly knows that you like her and still tells you that someone is chasing her, it means a lot more. Let me analyze what does it mean when a girl tells a boy that someone is chasing her?
1. Girls are testing you
Sometimes a girl obviously likes you, but she will not show it directly, but will use various methods to test whether you like her too. If you two are in love, then when you hear a girl say that another boy is pursuing her, you will definitely be jealous, anxious and nervous, and act very afraid of losing her. Then the girl will know that you like her. Then she will continue to maintain a close relationship with you.
But if you hear a girl tell you that someone is chasing her, she doesn’t react at all, and even asks her in a gossipy way, "How is that guy? Do you need me to help you test him?" , the girl will think that you don't like her, and even if she likes you, she will automatically stay away from you.
Therefore, when a girl tells a boy that someone is chasing her, it depends largely on how the boy reacts. You are nervous about her and scared. She was chased away, and he quickly expressed his feelings to her. Or do you say that you don’t have any reaction to the fact that a girl is being pursued, and you still ignore the girl. Girls will decide how to treat you next based on your reaction.
2. The girl wants you to treat her better
If you and the girl are already in a relationship or you and the girl are already in an ambiguous state, in this case the girl will You said someone is chasing her to remind you to be nice to her. After all, she is infinitely charming, and even if she has a boyfriend, there are still people pursuing her. At this time, it is not actually a sign that the girl has changed her mind, but that she wants to arouse your sense of crisis by having someone chase her. Think back to whether you have neglected her recently, whether she said something that you didn't take to heart, whether she is waiting for your lover to send you a gift...
When you really think about it and realize your problem, girls will no longer care about you. After all, if a girl really wants to change her heart, then if someone pursues her, she will silently accept other people's kindness to her, slowly become indifferent to you, and then quickly confirm a relationship with someone else after breaking up with you, instead of still being with you. Just tell you in a big way that someone is pursuing her.
Of course, if you are friends with a girl and she tells you that a boy is pursuing her, she may be asking for your opinion and advice. Finally, I would like to remind everyone that a girl will not tell a boy who has nothing to do with her that someone is chasing her. After all, girls will not be idle.
