When chatting with a girl, she always replies. Most boys will think that the girl is perfunctory, but in fact this happens for two reasons:
If she replies like this occasionally, then maybe She doesn't know how to reply, and she thinks it would be rude not to reply, so she hopes you can provide a topic in this way. For example, if we say to a girl, "I just got off work, I'm so busy today," the girl will say um, or A smiling expression. I want to tell you, "I know, but I don't know how to reply to you."
If I always reply to you like this, it means I am not interested in you and I am perfunctory with you.
So many times, when girls reply to messages, it’s not always that this girl doesn’t like you and is perfunctory with you.
You must learn to judge based on the actual situation, and you don’t know that this girl doesn’t like me, she is perfunctory with me, and it’s over. Instead, we need to learn to reflect on why this girl is perfunctory with me. Is it because I am too boring to talk, or is she looking down on me as a person? So why does she look down on me?
There are a hundred reasons for success, but there is only one reason for failure, that is, you are not working hard enough and you are not good enough. There are only two reasons for women to deal with you:
You talk boringly and are always checking household registration and asking questions.
You are too frustrated, even if you look frustrated, you talk and dress poorly, and you can’t find any merit. So why do you ask a woman to like you and pay attention to you?
A man may not be handsome, but he will work hard to make money. You can say that he has no talent and cannot make money, and he can be funny and coaxing. Happy, you said I'm stupid and can't make people happy. So let me ask you, who would want a man who is not handsome, has little money, and can’t make people happy?
Chatting is actually a very artistic act, just like not everyone Everyone can become a painter, and not everyone can become a musician. What’s more, you need to improve yourself comprehensively!
p>When chatting with girls, they always give you a perfunctory expression of, oh, well. You can use words to crack her, but this only treats the symptoms and not the root cause. If you want to cure the root cause, you need to find out more why she treats you. This is the key.
If your value is not enough, then increase your value.
If chatting by yourself is too boring, then improve your chatting.
