For those boys who have little love experience and want to get out of singles quickly, blind date is undoubtedly the fastest and most reliable way, but blind date is not so easy to succeed. So what details do boys need to pay attention to when dating?
1. Appearance
Girls are all duplicitous and say that a man's appearance is not that important.
However, when girls discuss men in private with their best friends, they will admit that they belong to the Appearance Association.
Only if she is not disgusted with your appearance, will she be willing to communicate with you, just like no one wants to discuss life with a beggar.
But there is a very strange phenomenon.
For example, if you have a person who is very disgusting, you will be disgusted whenever you see someone who looks like him.
So don’t dress up in fancy clothes. The best clothes are those with the widest audience.
2. Conversation ability
In addition to dressing up during a blind date, the second thing to pay attention to is your conversation ability. Your words and deeds are gone.
Therefore, blind date is a test of a person’s ability to observe words and expressions.
If you can’t guarantee that you will attract girls as soon as you open your mouth, then make the chat more relaxed and comfortable, and don’t really make the blind date as grand as a ceremony.
You’d better prepare some short jokes to use during blind dates. To make the atmosphere interesting, keep making it interesting. These short jokes may save you at critical moments. Oh my life.
3. Attention
Of course, your attention is not meant for you to just stare at girls. But you can't stop looking at her and look at the other girls around you.
Your attention should be paid to all the details around you
For example
When the waiter serves the food, you need to help clear up space on the table and say thank you; when dining Always pay attention to the position of the napkin, and hand the napkin to the girl in advance; pay attention to the subtle changes in the girl's expression in real time, whether she is happy or unhappy; there are also behaviors to pay attention to, sometimes a very rude behavior, you may Don't know;
There are more things to pay attention to.
4. Act naturally
Don’t be nervous, just like facing an ordinary friend, the more nervous you are It's easy to make a fool of yourself. Speak naturally and listen more. You can't talk to yourself or say nothing. In a blind date, boys usually control the atmosphere and take good care of girls' emotions. Such boys will make the other party's favorability towards you soar.
5. You attach great importance to this meeting
When you are at home, you have to give yourself an answer , I don’t just deal with it casually, I have to be in the best condition at all times to face every opportunity I have with girls.
You must spend time and energy to prepare your costumes and topics. These are not things that can be imagined.
If you are serious enough about this, girls’ social intuition will be sensed.
Who would waste time to meet again with someone who does not value this meeting?
Feelings require sacrifice, but these sacrifices are all for ourselves. We Why not work harder?
