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18 questions from our users

ELA

ELAasked

I found out my husband was on this site.. and his location was set to where we live... He tried to say that it was from when he lived in Cairns before we met and adult matchmaker somehow must have worked out he moved towns.. And that he forgot to delete his profile..I call crap on this.. but I just need proof that whatever location you choose is what it stays at. Please any help?



1 answer
Mokka
Mokka

Well it seems you found each other again. That's the most thing hun

Josh

Joshasked

My photos keep disappearing every time I leave the site

No answers
Josh

Joshasked

Why do my photos keep disappearing every time I leave the site

1 answer
Bruce T
Bruce T

Hello Josh.
Quite happy to answer your question.
I never had that problem.
Are the photos in your Public Gallery or Private Gallery?



Have you contacted administration?
They always answered my queries, so they maybe able to give you a better understanding why this is happening.

Regards Bruce

Cans

Cansasked

How long does the maintenance take on the site i cant get onto it

1 answer
Simon D
Simon D

Can be 2 or 3 hours.
All back up now.



Poiredor

Poiredorasked

How can someone know that you have gone invisible?

No answers
Ann

Annasked

if you go invisible can anyone you previously contacted see you?

1 answer
Amazed
Amazed

Yes they can

PaulP237

PaulP237asked

How do I remove a photo from the site?

I am a trial member, i.e., I do not have any paid subscription. I recently uploaded a photo. I wanted it to go into a private gallery, and I ticked that box, but it was uploaded and now shows as my profile picture. I do NOT want a profile picture. I only want a picture of myself to be available to someone if I grant private access to them.

How do I a) remove my profile picture and place it on my private gallery?

How do I b) remove the photo from the site completely?

1 answer
xFunlovingx
xFunlovingx

There is a delete option. Click the little box and hit delete or move it to your private gallery

Krysf2015

Krysf2015asked

I cannot log on at the moment! Is there a problem with the web site?

2 answers
Timbo
Timbo

Same question here, and no response from the emails I sent to support team.

Timbo
Timbo

Same question here, and no response from the emails I sent to support team.

paulh007

paulh007asked

how do i cancel an account?

1 answer
Private
Private

You can cancel your account from desktop version
You go to edit profile
Settings
Take a break or terminate

You can't terminate from mobile site

Mysteve

Mysteveasked

I have found my account cancelled and I'm not getting a response from am about it, can they just cancel it for no reason?

1 answer
JustG
JustG

I know this site uses twitter, try that or email them, I'd be sending a email, if you dont feel they are responding make sure you check your junk or spam in email...

Cosmic

Cosmicasked

Why do your use fake profiles?

4 answers
Macobro
Macobro

Both men and women want to make out what they aren't. Women make themselves out to be smaller and more attractive by using someone else's pics and statistics and men trying to make themselves more appealing to the women. Site is only after the membership fees. Read some of the reviews
It's difficult to know who is fake, take your time and be very careful as my sister has been dupped and is paying the price

Bloss
Bloss

Mens profiles are real.... real people. But not necessarily men you would want to chat to or meet.

Women and men use dating and sex sites for different reasons. Not all of them legitimate. Its often about fantasy, lies and delusion

Bloss
Bloss

Also prostitutes may put up profiles to suck you into paying for sex. It makes sense..... there are so few women on AMM compared to men.

Linda Newburn

Linda Newburnasked

How do you see whose hot list you are on?

2 answers
Bloss
Bloss

You can't see who's hot lists you are on. But its how they know you are on line easily. Thats how they come to chat quickly.Just block any unwanted attention.

Safety first
Safety first

You can't see who's hotlist you are on. If you block someone and see very similar profile to those blocked do same. It's happened to me. Blocked member then got another member contact me and was same as blocked member

Stella

Stellaasked

i would like to know why my account is terminated?? I did nothing wrong so why am i banned for life, i cant even open a new account ? Your admin support team are so lazy they dont even give me a reason for terminating my account which i paid for, ive sent 10 emails and got no reply, i think its very unfair that you treat your gold members better than your trial members,
Stella

1 answer
Agrona
Agrona

Stella, they will never explain why, they don't need a reason, it's just another lazy way of stealing from you legally, all hidden in the fine print. People should realise that companies like this will continue to exploit people and take their money. The best way to deal with it is DON'T GIVE THEM YOUR MONEY!! stop supporting these crap websites that use people to gather financial gain at their expense. The admin team of AMM consists of one person and four computer generated admins. It's a giant money making con, these people make millions each year!

Agrona

Agronaasked

Hey, Adult match maker, why do you give free memberships to bullies? looking forward to your answer!

4 answers
Cb
Cb

Hi. I'm sure AMM will get back to you. Remember to block them fast.
And I can't see any company being able too predict if someone's nice, nasty, real or a fake.
Hope the person loses interest fast.

Agrona
Agrona

CB, of course AMM won't answer, they never address the issue. Especially not when the person they gave the free membership to keeps the paying customers online for them.
My advice is * Don't support amm*

Adult Match Maker
Adult M.Adult Match Maker

The only time we give free membership to members is a membership as a part of prize given away at an event sponsored by Adult Match Maker. There is a possibility that the member you are referring to was one of them. If however the person given a prize is found to have caused an issue, we will look into the member as we would for any members reported. There is no special treatment for any members with or without the free membership.

Tittalee

Tittaleeasked

Why can't i get my old profile back. I've got two i want my first one back. I've got all my good pic in that one

2 answers
Adult Match Maker
Adult M.Adult Match Maker

Hi Tittalee, we are happy to close the new account and keep the old one for you. Please send our support team a request through "Contact Us" page or send us an email at [email protected] with the new and old username or other details you may have.

Stella
Stella

i would like to know why my account is terminated?? I did nothing wrong so why am i banned for life, i cant even open a new account ? Your admin support team are so lazy they dont even give me a reason for terminating my account which i paid for, ive sent 10 emails and got no reply, i think its very unfair that you treat your gold members better than your trial members,

Kadey

Kadeyasked

How I can meet s gitl or lady near preston by this site I'm 30 and looking some one from 20 to 42

3 answers
Will V
Will V

Try another site.

yoAdrian
yoAdrian

Talk to them and if they give their number then thats the first step. But dont bother to get your hopes up. chances profiles are fake are quite frequent over 80% of the time if the girl looked more than half decent the profile ended up being fake and AMM didnt give a care. Normally you will meet alot of women who are not attractive or deliberately hide a particular angle of their face and pose in a different posture to hide their looks.

Bloss
Bloss

You have little chance. There are often 70 men looking for every girl. Get real. Look at the who's online stats when you log in.

Luke

Lukeasked

I want to try AMM for three months but, looking at the membership site (as I was entering my Visa number), it said that my membership would be automatically renewed (and, therefore, money from this account would be automatically deducted) towards the end of my 3-month membership. I don't want to have money automatically deducted at the end of my 'trial membership'. Can you please assure me that my membership would not be automatically renewed at the end of this period unless I actively ask for it?

4 answers
jay
jay

On the site, there was a option to cancel auto renewal, I wouldn't trust it still. I cancelled my account 2 days before by membership was about to expire. If you are keen to meet someone, I must say, there are some better free apps out there still.

Cheers

jay

Adult Match Maker
Adult M.Adult Match Maker

Hi Luke, you can cancel auto renewal from Payment section of your account settings page at any time. The renew occurs 2 days prior to expiry so the cancellation of auto renewal has to be made 3 days prior to the expiry to ensure that you won't be charged next time. If you have any questions, please contact our customer support from "ContactUs" link so we can assist you.

Bloss
Bloss

Most dating sites operate this way. They all make it hard to leave and will take money as per their payment clauses. Its just a business for them. Read details carefully. Contact them for clarification.

mean

meanasked

Hi, on Adult matchmaker, Would I really get to meet a girl and allowed to send personal contact details to eachother for meeting up as match making is what its all about isn't it ??

5 answers
mandude
mandude

Ive been on Amm a while, Ive sent at least close to 100messages with my pics, Im Mr Good looking to most females been told, I only got one reply not interested Your not what Im looking for, mind you they only show abit of skin as a profile pic. Its either the sites administration opening your messages and not replying I believe? I dont believe people are that rude in general to not reply! Why? cos they dont exist. Join a worthy dating site with a good reputation. With Amm you throw your money to swine cos Amm have control and offer females only to be affilated with them, In a nutshell they pay them commisions by fishing guys on there looking interested but dont deliver. Its another legal loophole they can use. If you dont believe me read their conditions its all there I found out once I paid.
Good Luck

jay
jay

Hi, You need to pay and become a member in order to send emails to people, there's levels of membership, silver, gold and platinum. e.g silver members only can send like 4-5 emails a day.
In these emails, yes you can send personnel information to each other. Good luck getting a reply still. There's fake profiles and it's always the same women on there for months. I consider myself a good looking guy but most profiles I came across are BBW, Large, Old... (if that's your fancy, go for it) I was after someone into fitness and decent looking on the eyes, no luck there.
I'd say you can get more luck on free dating apps online. I've had more luck on them, yes it's also a game of numbers and your pick up skills, but there's more real women/ guys and better luck, and it's free.
AMM is a waste of money and time.

Cheers

Jay

Adult Match Maker
Adult M.Adult Match Maker

Hi Mean, Yes, you can send contact details to each other through messages. It is, however, strongly recommended to stay on the site to communicate each other until you become comfortable with that person to protect yourself. Female members tend to be cautious about giving away personal details right after meeting someone on the site as well. So take advantage of our safe messaging and chat feature to get to know each other while keeping it safe for both of you and see where it takes you!

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