If you only chat with girls about daily life, it will be difficult to bring them closer. Occasionally, you still need to change your thinking and talk about topics that can bring you closer to each other. So what can you talk about to get closer to a girl?
1. Irregular topics
Irregular topics are a mode of communication between boys and girls, with emotions Fluctuation is relatively novel and lively, and can be used to upgrade relationships.
Boys: "Your long hair looks really nice, but we can't go shopping together."
Girls: "Why?"
Boys: "Boys Handsome and beautiful, it is easy to make passers-by jealous.”
Such inappropriate topics can arouse girls’ emotions and feelings. Girls can also feel the image conveyed by words through words, and girls will. I feel that this kind of chat is novel and interesting, and can build a certain degree of attraction. But be careful not to talk too much about this topic. If you talk too much, girls will think you are glib. In serious cases, girls will think you are "condescending".
2. Guiding topics
Girls are passive social creatures. This characteristic determines that girls During the chat with you, I will not actively guide the topic to further enhance the relationship between you. Boys should learn to lead girls in chatting and guide the topic in a direction that is conducive to the "evolution" of your relationship.
Boys can guide the other party to your high value points or areas of expertise. Directly showing your value will appear "cheap". If a girl asks directly, there will be no problem, because she took the initiative to ask. You didn't "show off" directly.
Boys: "I'm so hungry, but I can't eat."
Girls: "Why?"
Boys: "You have to pay attention to your diet. I always Working out. "
Boy: "I'm doing PPT. I'm very busy at work recently."
Girl: "What do you do?"
Boy: "I run some sales work with my friends."
Be careful not to talk about girls' troubles and negative energy when leading the topic. This will make girls only think of asking for help when they have troubles. If you talk to me, I will definitely think of you when I am happy. Another thing is not to show your weak side, such as showing your failures and unsatisfactory life, your extremely fragile heart, etc.
3. Keyword topics
Boys should find keywords for girls to reply to when chatting with them. , although there are many words in the girl’s reply, there are only one or two keywords, find this oneTwo keywords to play their role.
Boys: "How do you feel today?"
Girls: "Not bad, just get used to life."
In this sentence, "Get used to it." " is the keyword of the reply. Boys can chat with girls around these words. For example, you can ask her: "What do you usually do?" "I feel like your life is quite relaxed. Do you have any interesting things to tell me?" Words are the "motivation" to promote the topic. Boys can use these to understand the girl and her living conditions.
When you learn the above 3 WeChat flirting topics, you will find that interacting with girls on WeChat is still very simple, not as difficult as you think, but don’t get too excited, you know Everyone is different and unique, and these are not applicable to every girl. Therefore, we must continue to understand and make progress through practice again and again in order to succeed.
