When I just added a girl to WeChat, some boys can upgrade their relationship within a few days of chatting, some boys chatted for several months without any progress in the relationship, and some boys were blocked by girls after just a few words. What is the best way to chat with girls who have just been added to WeChat?
1. Focus on small elements in life
For example, once I met a girl. She was a college student and felt that life was boring. I met her at a party, and I didn't contact her for two weeks. Until one day, she posted a comment about the student cafeteria in her WeChat Moments, and I commented on it. I left a message on her WeChat Moments, saying that I heard that you were fighting with other girls at school. , and then at this time the girl’s comment in the circle of friends replied to me saying that you are not listening to who is talking nonsense, and then sent a laughing emoticon.
Why I did this? Because my comment was actually a joke on her. Obviously, this girl did not fight with other girls in school, but she resonated with my joke. She Take my joke, so I'll continue the review.
2. Never become a problem boy
Now this girl has started a new relationship with you When interacting, you should be careful not to become a problem boy. When interacting with girls, many boys will ask the girl crazily because they don't have good conversation materials, asking her what she is doing, whether she has done anything fun in the past two days, etc.
In fact, it is very uncomfortable for girls because you have just met. If a strange man comes up and asks you a lot of questions, she will feel that she has no obligation to respond to you, but at the same time she has to reply out of politeness, so this is a very embarrassing situation.
The correct approach is to replace your questions with some declarative sentences as much as possible. These topics are open-ended and should make girls feel comfortable and willing to continue chatting. In this process, what you need to do is to use some expressions to replace your text as much as possible. Don't just send text, because many times a small animation or a small expression can actually represent Thousands of words.
3. Talk about food and find interactive topics
You say you give XX to the puppy, and then girls usually pick up the topic, why should you give this to the puppy?, instead of Dog food, and then you can have a very homely conversation like the following. Not just chatting, but to see how interested this girl is in you and whether she is willing to pick up your topic? If she is very cold, this proves that when you first interacted, you The first impression left on her was actually not that good.
4. Talk about values, topics of equal interest
You need to spend more time showing values ??rather than talking about them. Go to upgrade or ask her out, because your date with her will definitely fail. Some boys don't have many interactions with girls before they meet them. For example, they met through some social software or some blind date websites. They have never met in person and have a weak sense of connection, so the chat progress will be slower at this time.
In this case, you can use declarative sentences to do some very simple cold reading of the girl, or comment on her circle of friends and her avatar. For example, if there are some distinctive things in the girl's avatar, for example, she traveled in a certain scene and went to a certain country, you can say that you have been to France, what kind of places have you been to? of a place.
5. Chatting about small animals
Then after going back and forth two or three times, at this time I talked to her The interaction will be more about a scene that is an extension of the interaction when we first met, which is a scene replay. Situation replay refers to the first time we met, because chatting with girls always leads to some intersections. For example, I once talked about a unique small restaurant, or I could talk about his pet, or we could talk about a cactus or some ordinary small elements in my house. Suppose that when you interacted with a girl for the first time, you also talked about a puppy at home and what its name would be. At this time, you can send her a picture of the puppy, and then make one or two comments about the puppy.
You also need to choose the right time for chat topics. If you have just met, don’t talk about too heavy topics. You can talk about food, pets, and personal interests and hobbies. Then you can learn more about what she talked about in the first chat, so that you can learn more about her the next time you chat.
