Often when boys pursue girls, they often give to the girl without asking for anything in return. As long as the girl wants to eat, I will buy it and deliver it to her downstairs no matter how far away it is; whatever the girl wants, I will save money and buy it as a birthday gift for her;
When I go on a date with a girl on the weekend, I pay for everything from eating and watching movies to taking a taxi and buying drinks.
They think that as long as they are nice to girls, they will eventually be able to impress them. However, this is just a wrong concept of chasing girls, and it will only make girls treat you as a cash machine. You should know that girls only like good people rather than people who are good to themselves.
Speaking of which, in fact, the process for many boys to become human cash machines is roughly the same:
In the beginning, I often invited girls to dinner and movies. As time went by, I began to think hard and give various gifts.
For example, when shopping, a girl sees a bag that she thinks is very beautiful. When the boy next to her hears this, he immediately wants to buy it for the girl. However, the girl refuses and says, "This is too expensive. I "Can't accept it." But as for boys, the more they are rejected by girls, the more they want to buy it to show their generosity, so they keep adding weight, and finally deliver it to their homes to show their sincerity.
After several times of this, the girl kept refusing, and the boy would reiterate every time, "I am willing to buy it for you. I don't ask you to pay anything in return, and there is no psychological burden." In the end, the woman could only accept it "reluctantly".
Next, similar things happened often. Boys invested more and more money in girls, and girls used this method to "reluctantly" accept gifts every time, and men became more and more interested. Passive, but women have no other intention to take the initiative.
Slowly, girls became accustomed to this and accepted it more and more with peace of mind, so a brand new human-flesh cash machine was born.
Therefore, if we want to chase a girl, we can’t just pay blindly to the girl, but also provide value to the other party. time, and at the same time demand the same value from her.
On the material level, you can joke with a girl, "How about I treat you to dinner and you treat me to coffee?" On the spiritual level, for example, if I help you repair your computer and you call me brother, this kind of kindness Most girls won't be offended by his teasing.
In short, when you invest in a girl, you should also let her invest in you.
Seeing this, some thin-skinned boys may think: Does it make me look stingy to be so fussy? Besides, after all, I am chasing others, will this make girls Are you disgusted?
For the brothers who have this idea, the editor just wants to say:
Since ancient times, warm men have always had spare parts, either because they are good to women or they canIf it is easy to get a woman's heart, women will not cherish it.
If she treats you coldly because of this, it is a good thing. You will recognize a woman who only wants to use you as a cash machine.
Because real good girls know how to reciprocate, they will not receive rewards for nothing, and they will not continue to do things for no reason. Accept your gift.
So, next time a girl asks you to buy her this or that, you can smile and say:
I usually only do this kind of thing to my girlfriends, you You don’t want to be my girlfriend so soon, do you?