Girls rely on attracting rather than pursuing. Many boys do not understand this truth, so the success rate of pursuing girls is often very low. So how do boys attract girls? Here are 4 tips.
1. Confident and decisive
When a man appears in front of a girl, the woman cannot know the man’s experience What and what qualities it possesses. She can only judge the value of this man by his words and deeds. If you show low self-esteem and lack of opinion in front of girls, women will think you are a loser. Because you have experienced too many failures, you become less confident.
On the contrary, if you show confidence and courage, no matter whether your confidence can withstand scrutiny, the moment you approach women, they will assume that you are valuable. You can maintain this confidence because of your continued success in the past.
2. Dare to heat up the relationship
The reason why honest men are not popular with women is that they are too conservative and too honest and dare not heat up the relationship with girls. If you don't hold hands when it's time to hold hands and don't dare to call the baby when it's time to do so, women will feel that you are a coward. Don't expect women to lead you to warm up the relationship. As a man, you need to constantly lead and test. Whether a woman accepts it or not, she will tell you through feedback.
You must know that the genetic similarity between women and men is as high as 99%. Both men and women want to find a suitable partner that suits them. Women are passive creatures by nature, and if you dare not lead, the result will be that they will be passed out.
3. Push and pull in a roundabout way
On the premise of establishing attraction, give girls praise and criticism, The feeling of gaining and losing can effectively arouse girls' desire to conquer. Human nature is like this. If you give a girl too many indicators of interest, she will find it boring.
People will instinctively think that things that are easily obtained have no value. Therefore, when getting along with a woman, you must not blindly please her, but use roundabout strategies.
For example:
Boys: Why did you go out dressed like this
Girls: What happened to me dressed like this
Boys: You look so good dressed like this and it’s so easy to attract hatred
Boys: Your face is as fleshy as a child
Girls: I dislike you for being fat and ignore you
Boys: I like children
4. Arouse emotions
Women are emotional animals, they like humor , Men who know how to flirt are nothing more than being emotionally aroused. All routine love words and push-pull words are essentially to arouse girls' emotions. And the reason why straight men are attracted by womenThe reason for being disliked by students is basically because the emotional value is too low and they only talk about games, academics and other topics that girls are not interested in.
