Due to the influence of their personality and growth environment, some boys are fine chatting with acquaintances, but when it comes to chatting with girls, they become extremely stupid and don’t know how to continue the conversation, so they miss many opportunities to get out of singles. Isn’t that a stupid guy? What should I do if I can chat with a girl?
In fact, basically all boys will feel nervous when they meet the girl they like, but some boys can adjust quickly, and some But I don’t know how to adjust, which makes me very anxious and I don’t know what to say at all. This is the root cause of being clumsy when chatting with girls.
Therefore, if you want to change the situation of being stupid and unable to chat when chatting with girls, you must calm down and don’t always Think about how to chat better, but just avoid making fewer mistakes. Here are a few taboos when chatting with girls. Everyone needs to understand:
1. Don’t try to reason with girls
2. Don’t always ask girls some questions
3. Don’t copy some local love words
4. Don’t find something to say when you have nothing to say
So we can’t do this. We have to start with the way girls think. You must know that girls are creatures dominated by emotions. They think rationally and pay special attention to their own emotions and feelings. This is why girls love to watch idol dramas so much, because they are interesting. The plot and process can bring them a good emotional experience.
Regardless of whether it is reasoning, asking questions, earthy love words, or looking for words when you have nothing to say, it is obvious that it cannot bring an emotional experience to a girl. Instead, it will only make her feel bored and boring. How can it continue?
Now that we have a certain understanding of the taboos of chatting with girls, let’s talk about the chatting skills of stupid boys and girls. Here we will explain it in two points.
1. The way to chat with girls
The way to chat: declarative sentences + feelings.
For example: "I just finished a party with my friends, and I'm so tired." "I just finished exercising, and I feel so good. I feel like I'll lose two pounds." "I just finished eating hot pot, and the spicy beef is really good. Awesome. ”
Chat like this to express your status, let girls understand you, and girls can pick up your topic through your words.
Sometimes when you say something, a girl doesn’t know how to answer the question. Chatting and interacting are actually about keeping both of you connected.
If you really want to ask a girl a question, just say: "I live on xx Road, where are you?" "I am eating, where are you?" Just add "Where are you?" after each sentence. ” asked rhetorically. Instead of directly saying "What are you doing? Have you eaten?"
Will it be more effective to talk to girls in this way? Girls will replyThe probability of repaying you is also much higher.
2. Frequency of chatting with girls
Remember, if a girl sends a line, you will also send a line ;
You should also send as many words as the girl sends, just keep it about the same.
Don’t send a lot of lines and a lot of words, and the girl only replies with a few words. This is not only unbalanced, but the girl will choose the questions she is interested in to answer you and skip other questions. You won't get the information you want to know.
For example, you say: "My home is on ** Road, where are you?" Then you say something else: "I think your eyes are very lethal, and my little heart can't stand it."< /p>
A girl will definitely skip the first question and reply to your second question. She may say: "Really? This is the first time I heard someone say that." Maybe she later realizes that she didn't answer your question. If you don't mention the previous question, she will pretend she didn't see it and move on to the next topic.
