The meaning of "true love" is deeper than many of us imagine. If it is just similar interests, common topics, and emotional sustenance, in fact, many relationships basically have such attributes. Therefore, it would be too simple to judge true love just because of these attributes. So how do you judge whether what you are experiencing is true love?
"True love" must have factors that other relationships do not have. In my case, It seems that we can have no reservations in front of this person, that is, we have met true love.
Don’t think that this is a very simple thing. In fact, each of us has a side that we are more or less unwilling to show to each other: our negative emotions, our bad past, part of our secrets...
Because we are afraid, we Insecure, we worry that the other person will stay away from us once they know this. Because of this, we tell more and more lies in our relationships, we hide more and more of ourselves, and eventually we hide deeper and deeper.
Can the two of you still get along? Yes, but only you know: in some things, even though you have a significant other, even though you seem to have someone with you, in fact you will still Feel alone.
Therefore, when you meet someone who lets you be honest with yourself, you will know that you have met someone. The right person, and that person is your true love.
If you meet the right person, you don’t need to hide your thoughts, you will express them normally, and the other person will happily accept them: because you are the same kind of people, there is no difference between you What needs to be hidden? There are even some things that the other party will know what you want to do without even telling them.
How can you meet true love? In fact, in my opinion, it is very simple: when you get along with anyone, you must be your truest self.
Many people are actually disguising themselves in the process of dating. We try every means to create a perfect personality for ourselves to make ourselves more popular with everyone.
But this image is not the real you. Even if you attract others, you must constantly disguise yourself to maintain your Persona.
Therefore, the best way is not to pretend from the beginning:
Only if you are true and honest can you pass the screening and keep those People who truly appreciate you and identify with you.
You will find that the things you were scrupulous and worried about in the past are not worth mentioning about that person.
