Giving gifts to girls is a way to cultivate feelings and often achieves good results. However, if boys do not do it well, it will have the opposite effect.
Therefore, it is very important to master the "gift-giving thinking" of chasing girls. Just like in social interaction, "gift-giving" is also a very learned thing.
In the process of chasing girls, the essence of "gift-giving thinking" lies in two parts: on the one hand, it is the "gift-giving framework" to prevent the counter-effects of "giving the wrong gift"; On the other hand, it is the "core operational method of gift giving" to promote the development of feelings.
If you do the above two things well, you can often get twice the result with half the effort when pursuing girls.
There are two main principles for the "gift-giving framework" for chasing girls.
First, the gift given to a girl should match the level of affection between the two people.
The deeper the relationship between two people, the more expensive the gift the boy can give. Remember, do not give expensive gifts to a girl when they have just met. This will not "buy" her.
Before giving a girl a gift, a boy should understand: At what stage of the relationship are the two of them currently at? Will giving this gift cross the line? Will it bring pressure to the girl?
The basic premise of pursuing a girl is to create a comfortable environment for the girl to get along with. Therefore, don't let giving gifts destroy the balance between two people.
Secondly, when giving gifts to girls, you need to find a "step" for them.
When facing boys, girls will have a "reserved mentality", the so-called "no reward for no work". Therefore, when giving gifts to girls, it is best to find a step for her, that is, Give her a reason to accept the gift.
In this way, it can not only break through the "reserve mentality" of girls, but also hide the "sense of need" of boys.
Some boys see that a girl likes something and want to buy it directly and give it to the girl. They think she will be very moved. However, if they can't find a "step", they often Will be rejected by girls.
Generally speaking, the "steps" for giving gifts to girls can be: birthday gifts, help gifts, commemorative gifts, love tokens, Valentine's Day gifts, and travel souvenirs.
The above "gift-giving thinking" is just a restrictive framework. Only by allowing boys to abide by the rules can they more smoothly pursue the girl they like.
This is just a basic operation. The real point is that boys must understand how to promote the development of relationships by giving gifts to girls.
The direct purpose of giving gifts to girls is to promote the further development of relationships through giving gifts.
If you give a girl a gift and it doesn’t help the development of your relationship, then it’s better not to give it at all.
If you want to give gifts to girls that can promote the development of your relationship, there are three core methods.
First, when giving gifts to girls, you must be aware of the relationship. It has commemorative significance.
For example: Two people went to the beach, and the boy secretly found a beautiful shell. After returning, he found someone to draw beautiful patterns on the shell.
When a boy gives a shell to a girl, he tells her: This is a shell I picked up when we were playing together at the beach last time. I thought it was very pretty, so I processed it and gave it to you. I hope this will be given to you. Put all the beautiful memories in this shell.
In the days to come, whenever a girl sees this shell, she will think of the beautiful scene of you playing at the beach together. This is a "commemorative gift." " effect.
Increase girls' memories, which is very similar to the "storytelling" technique. In fact, many techniques for chasing girls are similar. When you pass my column "99 Points "Man", after studying it systematically, I believe it will be easier to understand.
Whether it is a gift that is commemorative of the relationship, or a gift that is commemorative to her or you, it will be important to the development of the relationship. It helps.
Second, the gift you give to a girl should reflect some of your value.
For example: If you are good at painting, you can use your own hands. , carefully help the girl draw a sketch.
If you really don’t have any talent, then make a jigsaw puzzle of the girl’s photo, and then put it together piece by piece carefully, which will also reflect your work. Showing your sincerity for her is also a kind of value.
Many boys will randomly find a "popular" product online and buy it for the girl. This does not reflect you at all.
Third, give girls something they like and want.
< p> This is easy to understand. What does a girl usually like? Just do what she likes. When she receives a gift she likes, she will be very happy.For example, a girl likes Hello Kitty dolls. Then if you buy her a related souvenir, she will be very happy.
In fact, it is not difficult to chase girls. As long as you do the right things, you can steadily promote the development of your relationship and chase her. The girl you like is just a matter of time.
If you don’t pursue the girl in the right way, you will always take detours and it will be difficult to find happy love.
