Some girls clearly accepted your offer, but after you made it clear that you wanted to pursue her, she refused. Some girls chat with you every day, but they just can't get a date. These behaviors of girls leave many boys confused. Today, the editor will take you to understand the difference between a girl's rejection and a test.
Girls’ thoughts are actually very easy to understand, because most girls are emotional, and their emotions will be expressed most directly, not to mention that you can’t hide your love for someone. of.
When you are almost done talking, if you want to further judge whether a girl really rejects you or tests you, the easiest way is to ask her out. You can observe from three stages: before the date, during the date, and after the date.
1. Before a date
If you ask her out, if she tells you directly, I have something, I Not available. And if it happens more than three times, that is true rejection and I have no feelings for you. In this case, what you should do is to first develop a certain goodwill through online chatting. For example, send some interesting emoticons and pictures to girls, etc.
But if she rejects you, she will take the initiative to find a place for you to step down and explain to you. For example, "I have to work overtime this weekend, let's see next week." "I've been too busy recently. Let's work together when we're done." In short, when she replies to you, she will leave you enough opportunities to ask her out, which will most likely be a test for you.
Many girls will not directly agree to a boy’s invitation for the first time because they feel in their hearts that this will make them appear to be an easy girl to pursue.
Therefore, to judge whether a girl is really rejecting you or testing you, see if you can ask her out. If she likes you, she can still find time no matter how busy she is; if the girl rejects your invitation, you can add Send me a private message and I will help you improve your invitation success rate.
2. Dating
Want to accurately judge whether a girl really rejects you or tests you? Contact at a distance is the most intuitive. Usually, there is a safe range between girls and boys. The more a girl likes you, the smaller this range is and the closer you are to her.
For example, if you pretend to touch her hand inadvertently, her reaction at that time must be her most real, because she has no time to think about what you mean.
If she avoids you subconsciously, she will even be cautious with you in the following time, for fear of any chance of contact again. That's 80% true rejection.
But if she shows embarrassment, for example, she has a shy expression, her face turns red, or she stutters...or she is more lively, she may joke with you in turn, for example." We haven’t even gotten together yet, and we started taking action.” That's probably going to be a test for you.
For people who like you, close contact can quickly warm up the relationship. For people who don't like you, close contact can quickly destroy the relationship.
3. After the date
Sending the girl home is an essential step, which can not only show you Being a gentleman as a boy will increase the girl's favor towards you, and you can spend more time chatting with the girl. By the way, you can also see how satisfied the girl is with today's date. In the final analysis, it is also how satisfied she is with you.
If she really refuses, she will directly tell you that she has already booked a taxi and does not need you to send her, or that someone will come to pick her up. More seriously, she may even be afraid that you will treat her inappropriately. think.
If it is a test for you: Maybe she will pretend to refuse at first, such as "It's too troublesome for you", "Why are you so embarrassed to ask you to give it to me", etc. In fact, you can hear it. Yes, but as long as you find a suitable reason to send it to her, she will agree. The initial rejection is just embarrassing.
Generally speaking, people who like you always want to stay with you as much as possible, while people who don't like you can't wait to see you again every minute.
