Many boys find it difficult to chat with girls on WeChat, especially girls who have just joined. They either can’t find a topic to start with or they become silent after less than a few words. Today, the editor is here to help you brothers who don’t know how to chat, and teach you three techniques to help you win over the girl you just added.
1. Universal opening
When chatting with girls, use "Did anyone say something about your eyes?" "Quite special" is a universal topic to start, which arouses girls' curiosity. At the same time, because "eyes" involves appearance, girls are most concerned about other people's opinions on this aspect of her. Using this opening will definitely make them feel better than some boys who check their household registration through "deadly serial questioning".
At this time, 80% of girls will ask "Why is it so special?" You can answer: "It sparkles like it can talk."
Strengthen the curiosity in girls' hearts, and most girls will ask "What are you talking about?", so you can naturally use push-pull techniques such as "Say you have gained weight" to make girls fall in love with chatting with you.
Of course, if the conversation does not follow the direction we imagined above, or simply ignores you, then you can continue to lead the conversation and say to the girl: "Don't you ask what it said?"
Applicable scenarios
When the topic is a little embarrassing, or when the girl’s reaction starts to be cold, save the cold moment in time to avoid awkward conversations.
2. Common topics
"The hot pot at XX place is good" is also a universal opening, and it is also A common topic, after all, "hot pot" is always a "paradise" food topic that most girls are interested in.
If you want to capture his heart, capture his stomach first. This sentence applies to most girls. If you know how to cook, you can also bring it up through this topic, and you can even invite girls to try your cooking to make excuses for the next meeting.
At the same time, the topics are not limited to food, but can also start from zodiac signs, movies, dramas, sports, etc.
For example, food topics can be extended to body shape and fitness topics. Here you can remember a keyword "slimming" to instantly mobilize a girl's mood and chat with her is no problem:
Boy: "Someone told me a particularly effective way to lose weight. Do you want to know?"
Girl: "Tell me about it."
Boy: "That is, no matter what delicious food, divide it into Half of me"
Girl: "Huh~ I want to be beautiful, I want to trick my delicious food"
Applicable scenarios
1. In the early stage of chatting, talk about food Can quickly warm up the scene.
2. When the two parties are chatting happily, adding food topics can easily find common topics and shorten the distance.
3. If youHaving eaten at the same restaurant, I felt an inexplicable sense of security.
3. Flirt at the right time
For example:
Male: This will happen What are you doing
Female: Well, just stay home
Male: You remind me of a sentence
Female: What words?
Male: If you don’t go out the door, you won’t take a step forward
Female: Hahaha, then I’m not the eldest lady
Male: I was going to treat the eldest lady to a hot pot
Female: Then why don’t you make a date?
Male: I suddenly want to stay home for a while
Female: Huh, don’t follow my example and don’t treat me to food. Hot pot curses you
Male: Actually, I am mainly afraid that you will blush when you see me
Female: No, I won’t look
Male: Then I will hold your hand , look at the road and be careful and fall down
Female: Oops, that’s not even redder
"This "What are you doing later?" is the preparation for an invitation. First understand the girl's schedule, explore her talk, and then select a time period when she is free to invite you.
"You remind me of a sentence" is also a universal opening. Girls will definitely ask questions. At this time, if you throw out a joke, girls will naturally be amused by you.
"I suddenly want to stay home for a while" (imitate a girl's tone~) This can quickly arouse girls' emotions. When you were a child, when you imitated girls’ behavior or tone, was it easy for them to pretend to be angry and punch you?
Applicable scenarios
When two people are chatting comfortably, it is usually used to upgrade their relationship. , of course, if the other party is a conservative woman, be sure to use this method with caution.