Aloof girls always give people a cold feeling, making it difficult for boys to come up and chat. But it’s so strange, the more aloof a girl is, the more fatally attracted she is to boys, and they can’t help but want to get close to aloof girls. So how should you chat with a cold girl?
Below, the editor will share with you 3 tips to win over aloof girls.
1. Maintain a sense of mystery
When chatting with aloof girls, don’t go all the way. If he had a long chat with her before, the result might only be a blank stare from the aloof girl. What should I do? When chatting with aloof girls, you should keep your sense of mystery appropriately. You must know that the reason why you are interested in a cold girl is that you are attracted by her cold tone, so you must also make the goddess interested in you. The key to maintaining a sense of mystery is to practice Tai Chi, brush aside, don't ask, don't respond, don't respond directly to the results that aloof girls want, keep certain necessary information to yourself, and don't tell everything about your feelings, food, clothing, housing, transportation, and living habits. His other side. Otherwise, what can she use to study you?
For example:
If a cool girl asks you where you live? You can give a rough direction, South Gate or West Gate. If the girl asks again if it is XX? Then you can answer her: Almost. You can answer this even if what she said is outrageous.
Another example: Do you often flirt with girls like this? You can also answer her: Did you characterize me as a flirting guy when you first saw me? Do I have such good skills? ?This threw the question back to her without giving her a clear answer, but I answered her sideways. Weaken the question she originally wanted me to answer directly. With such an answer, the girl will definitely ask you questions, and then you will have some more conversations. The situation of chatting high with an aloof girl is built up little by little. Before you know it, you have been chatting for more than an hour. Maybe the goddess will take the initiative to ask you to continue chatting next time!
2. Don’t keep your posture too low
Many boys tend to make a mistake when chasing aloof girls. Keep your posture very low and follow the rules. You cling to her like a pug, but you don't know that the more aloof you are, the more reserved and aloof the girl becomes, making it even harder to get close to her. So how should you chat with a cold girl? The correct chat posture is to put yourself and her on an equal footing. Don't reply to her message right away. Even if you see her, put her aside for a while and wait an hour or an afternoon before replying. Tell her that you're sorry for being too busy. She will realize that you will not pamper her all the time, and she will also understand that she cannot act as a goddess in front of you. Without the sense of superiority, it is natural that one cannot be aloof. Then continue to maintain a normal attitude and contact her, and give her a little surprise from time to time, and you can get it every minute.Next!
3. Selection of chat topics
Chatting with aloof girls is the most common mistake for boys. The mistake is to talk to girls about news reports, current affairs hot topics, study and training, work content... on a date. Reasoning with girls, talking about your work tasks, your work worries, too much criticism, criticism, and complaints will always prevent you from attracting girls. When chatting with an aloof girl, it’s better to talk about some topics related to her—your life, your experiences, your thoughts. The greater the similarities between you, the better your relationship with me and her. The longer the connection lasts, the more comfortable she will feel with you.
How to choose topics for chatting with aloof girls, we can start from the childhood we miss, the wonderful college life, the dreams in our hearts... Specifically, you can talk about some interesting childhood stories and dream plans. Most people live a cool and practical life, but they are not happy. When you talk about childhood and college, you feel nostalgic, and when you talk about hopes, you feel passionate. Share more past stories and future plans. Due to the illusion of time, it will make the other party feel that they have known you for a long time, giving them a sense of connection, which can steadily advance the relationship between the two.
In fact, aloof girls are also little girls, and they are not much different from ordinary girls. The only difference may be that they look colder in appearance, and it is not easy to understand what they are thinking in their hearts. As long as you can see through the aloof appearance of aloof girls and see their hearts, it is actually not difficult to interact with them. How to chat with aloof girls is not a problem at all.