No matter how you meet girls, they need to chat to get closer, even on a blind date. However, many boys choose blind dates because they lack love experience, so chatting with their blind date on WeChat always feels awkward. , what should we do in this situation?
How to chat with a blind date on WeChat without being embarrassed?
1. Pretend to be familiar and don’t be rigid
Even if you are a girl you met through a blind date, you cannot Serious and rigid, you still need to build goodwill through chatting. Dating is not about negotiating or doing business, so don’t pay too much attention to the conditions right from the beginning, let alone get straight to the point.
The person you just met on a blind date is still unfamiliar to both parties and is in a relatively restrained and awkward stage. At this time, you can quickly break the ice by pretending to be familiar, eliminate the embarrassment of the initial acquaintance period, and enter a normal communication state.
"Are you staying up so late waiting for me to say good night?"
"Which air-conditioned room are you cooling off in on such a hot day?"
"You stay Short hair will definitely look good."
"Aren't you afraid of being caught by your boss while using your mobile phone at work?"
2. Give more, ask less
Never chat with girls continuously Asking questions is called asking for value. If your relationship is not in place and you ask too many questions, you will be defined by women as having low emotional intelligence. Asking questions will not make girls like you. What will make girls like you is the value you show and provide.
Women are forced to choose a mate. What they are looking for is a valuable man. Only by showing your strengths and shining points can a woman's emotional circuit develop feelings for you.
“Coming to Shanghai for a business trip, the Bund is always crowded with people”
“Recently, I have been trying to control my body fat by eating grass and masturbating every day and almost collapsed”
3. Arouse emotions and be appropriately ambiguous
Women are particularly attracted to men who are humorous and interesting. The reason is that such boys can provide good emotional value to girls and make her happy. Therefore, even if you are meeting a girl on a blind date, your chat should not be too rigid and boring.
"Your photos are quite cute. I'll give you 8 points." "Full score is 100."
"Playing such an important thing may not be delayed by studying."
If the relationship between two people wants to progress, they must constantly amplify the ambiguous emotions between the two parties and further heat up the relationship. There is a window period in a love relationship. Once the window period passes and the relationship does not heat up, the girl will not give you another chance.
"You haven't woken up yet. I'm the one riding a white horse to kiss you awake."
"Come and pull you around to look at you.Isn’t your dress beautiful today?”
“My mother said that a girl who can take care of others is suitable to marry home”
p>4. Switching back and forth, spiraling up the temperature
There are two lines for chatting with girls. One is the serious and steady main line, talking about serious topics such as work and life; the other is the ambiguous and interesting line for heating up. , ambiguous flirting, relaxed and interesting. The two lines should be switched back and forth to constantly heat up the relationship.
Men must learn to be circuitous and never go all the way. When the heat is blocked, switch to stability. Topic: After talking about the steady topic, we switch back to the ambiguous topic, and the cycle repeats.
Boys: I’m still awake at this late hour.
Girls: Haha, yes.
< p> Boys: Are you waiting for me to say good night (flirting)Girls: No
Boys: I just finished the copywriting for tomorrow’s meeting (serious)
< p> Girls: Hard workBoys: Without you by my side, I have no brains for work (flirting)
Girls: Hahaha
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