When many boys meet a girl they like, the words come to their lips but cannot come out, even though they have spent a lot of energy to get the girl's contact information. But if the first sentence is wrong, the relationship between the two will not develop rapidly. Boys generally like to ask girls some innocuous questions. Such questions will only make girls feel disgusted, and even I don’t want to talk to boys anymore, so what is the most appropriate topic when chatting with girls?
1. Don’t talk about privacy issues
Because the two have just met each other and there is still a big relationship between them. There is a sense of distance and strangeness, so boys must not touch girls' emotional problems. For example, if a girl has experienced several relationships, this will only make the girl think that you are like those aunts at the entrance of the village, who love to gossip.
In fact, when two people are chatting, they can learn about each other’s basic information, such as what girls like to do the most, what they like to eat, or what interesting things happened today. Boys can also do this. Find some common topics between the two of you from the girl's circle of friends, chat about some small things in daily life, and let the girl slowly let go of her guard against you, so that the two of you can keep chatting.
2. Chat about interesting childhood stories
After the two people get to know each other, the girl may have a slight affection at this time. The chat should not be too superficial and the heartbeat needs to be raised. To another level, let the relationship between the two people go further. At this time, the two people can talk about those things in their childhood, or about their childhood memories, etc., such as what they once did in school that was shocking and weeping. things, or talk about what kind of person you will be in the future, to create a better future for girls.
3. Little sentiments during the ambiguous period
When the relationship between the two develops step by step, slowly It has reached the ambiguous stage. At this time, the relationship between the two will be more stable. At this time, the boy can properly understand the girl's view of love and ask her what kind of love she likes and what kind of boy she likes?
Boys can make corresponding adjustments. At this time, boys should give girls enough trust. When chatting, boys can put girls into their future plans, so that girls feel that you are A person who works carefully and thoughtfully, but the plan must be reasonable and legal, and don't be too floating, making the girl think that everything you say is actually a kind of hypocrisy.
Summary: When chasing a girl, if you really don’t know what is the most appropriate thing to talk about, you might as well learn the above topics so that you don’t have to worry about the two of you having nothing to say.
