Although there are currently more men than women in society, according to data from the Civil Affairs Bureau, the number of single young men and women in China is close to 200 million. According to the male to female ratio of 118:100, that means the number of single young women in our country is as high as 91.74 million. So why can't you find a girlfriend when there are so many single young women?
Although girls nowadays have become more realistic, more problems still lie with the boys themselves. Their own shortcomings in certain aspects have become the main reason why many boys cannot find girlfriends.
1. Lack of self-confidence
Many boys nowadays lack self-confidence. Perhaps it is because girls have too high requirements and most boys have limited abilities, so they often lack self-confidence when facing the girls they like. I feel that there is a big gap between girls' requirements for choosing a mate, and I often don't dare to express my feelings or confess my feelings.
For most girls, initiative is often in the minority. So if boys don't take the initiative, girls won't show anything. If there is no beginning, how can we talk about the subsequent relationship!
2. High IQ and low EQ
Although, like girls, most boys today have received higher education, it is precisely because of this that many boys seem to be "stupid" in school. Although he has a high IQ, his emotional intelligence is a mess.
First of all, we don’t pay enough attention to personal appearance, but in this age where faces are important, how can you impress and attract girls without a handsome appearance? But look at the boys around you, whether they look good or not. , but the dress and appearance feel lagging behind the level of a century.
The second is the process of communicating with girls. Many boys have no chatting skills at all. Even many boys are the ultimate conversation starters. When faced with girls who are actively chatting with you, you can always cleverly "chat" them to death. You know, chat communication is a very important part of social interaction.
There is also the inability to create surprises and romance. Why is it said that emotional intelligence is low? It's because boys don't understand "creatures" like girls. Girls themselves are still emotional, so they are always excited for surprises and gifts, but how many boys have done this?
< h2>3. High pressure in life and workOf course, due to the problem of living standards, most young people face greater life pressure than before. I am about to reach the age of getting married, but I have nothing, not to mention the bride price, the house, and the car. Nowadays, many young people working in first-tier cities have an income that can only keep their lives at an average level. so many youngPeople feel the pressure.
Therefore, more young people choose to work harder. This also causes today's young people to work harder. Apart from work and rest, there is no extra energy or thought to focus on finding a girlfriend.
