A woman is a creature that is unpredictable to men, especially after a breakup. Even if she has the idea of ??getting back together, she will appear calm on the surface. So men need to make their own judgment based on the situation. So how to test your ex-girlfriend if she wants to get back together?
1. Test from mutual friends</ h2>
You can first check out your ex-girlfriend’s story through your mutual friends. Please note that this is just a matter of probing, not conveying that you want to get back together.
For example: Ask your friend to say calmly in front of his ex-girlfriend, "I saw XXX recently, and I feel like there has been a big change."
If the other party shows curiosity, if the other party further inquires about your situation, or has a certain positive evaluation of you when talking about your problem, then it means: in the other party’s heart, they have a certain respect for you. My dislike is no longer that high, and I am already willing to learn your latest information.
2. Is it in the window period?
Although after the breakup, the ex-girlfriend was in the window period and was not in the window period. It’s not a sign that we want to get back together, but at least we can get two pieces of information from this state:
1) At least during this period, the other party has not met a suitable partner
2) At least the influence of the last relationship on this person has not completely disappeared yet
So at this time, if you contact this person, as long as the other person doesn’t particularly hate you, there is a high probability that you can still get it done As friends, you can chat for a few days, and this behavior itself shows that the other party is willing to give you a chance to get closer to you.
Although this is just an opportunity, for us to get back together, a window and an opportunity are already extremely precious.
3. Whether he maintains some kind of contact with you
If a person has just broken up with you , and filed to resign from the company; if a person just breaks up with you and immediately stops seeing you, and even goes to another area to live, then it means that the other person wants to directly cut off the relationship with you and never communicate with you again.
Therefore, when the other party still maintains some kind of contact with you and you can still meet together for various reasons, it means that the other party has a high probability of getting back together with you. good.
4. Did you break up because of trivial matters?
For some difficult-to-solve problems, such as two people firmly Refusing to live in the other person's city, parents particularly insisting that the two of them break up. If this problem is not solved, then this willEven if a relationship is restored, it won't last long - it was because of this that you broke up in the first place. Even if you get back together now, you will be separated again.
So, if you break up just because of some ways of getting along and not knowing how to maintain and manage an intimate relationship, in fact, when you really change, the other party will be willing to give you a chance. Because as long as this problem is solved, the obstacles that once blocked your relationship will be eliminated, and the other party will have no firm reason not to get back together with this person who knows everything about you.
