In the modern age of social media, pursuing a girl is no longer a face-to-face affair. Chatting via mobile phone has become a common way. However, some boys make some mistakes while chasing girls. The following are some taboos when chasing girls, I hope they can give you some suggestions.
1. Don’t be too direct
Avoid using too direct confession statements, such as "I like you" or " I'm in love with you". This can make girls feel stressed and distressed.
On the contrary, you can express your feelings in an indirect way, such as: "I always think of you recently", or "Every time I see you, I feel better" . This will be more gentle and subtle.
2. Don’t rely too much on emoticons
Although emoticons can make chatting more interesting, overuse can make people feel childish and immature. . Especially when pursuing a girl, you should show your maturity and stability.
3. Don’t send messages too frequently
Although you may be very interested in her, But texting too frequently can make a girl think you're too clingy. Give her some space and time to think and respond to your message.
4. Don’t just chat without seeing each other
It’s okay to build relationships through chatting, but ultimately you still need to Face-to-face communication to deepen mutual understanding.
Try to invite her out for coffee, watching movies, or taking a walk, etc., which can increase the intimacy between each other.
5. Don’t be too narcissistic
When pursuing a girl, don’t always talk about yourself. You should be interested in and actively involved in her life, interests, and dreams.
6. Don’t use vulgar language
Whether it is in real life or in chat, you should avoid using vulgar language. This will leave a bad impression and make the girl think you are uneducated.
7. Don’t ask too much about personal privacy
In chatting, don’t ask too much about girls’ personal privacy. This will make her feel uncomfortable and violated.
8. Don’t send too long messages
Try to avoid sending too long messages. Girls may not have the time or patience to read a long paragraph.
9. Don’t overreply her.Interpretation
Sometimes a girl's reply may be short, but it does not mean that she is not interested in you. Don't read too much into her responses and give each other some time to get to know each other.
10. Don’t be too anxious
Pursuing a girl requires patience and confidence. Don't be too anxious and impatient and give each other some time to develop feelings.
In the process of pursuing a girl, you should pay attention to your words and deeds. Get her attention by being gentle, considerate, and sincere. I hope the above tips can help you successfully woo the girl of your dreams.
